Paul Wesley was born on July 23, 1982 in New Brunswick, NJ. He is most notable for playing the brooding vampire Stefan Salvatore on The Vampire Diaries and Aaron Corbett in the ABC Family miniseries Fallen.
What is Paul Wesley’s Personality Type?
Paul Wesley is a fiery, emotional creature. As a result of the preponderance of emotion, sensation, and feeling in his psychological make-up, he has acquired a deep sense of his individuality and uniqueness. He sometimes feels “different” – set apart from others. In order to justify this idea of himself, he attempts to behave differently, to impress the crowd, and the product of his efforts is usually rather grandiose and exaggerated.
It’s a self-perpetuating bind, because his impressive deeds usually earn recognition for him, and reinforce his self-assurance and his certainty that he does indeed stand head and shoulders above the rest. He sometimes makes an attempt to bluff and show off with an emotional display. He likes to take risks and give people advice. Nevertheless, at the basis of his conduct, there is a feeling of social anxiety, which is probably unconscious or unconfessed. He may fear being absorbed or enslaved by society.
The positive side of this unconscious anxiety is that it drives him to create, to counteract the deeply felt effects of time and the masses on his ego. By creating something, he can make his own individual mark on the world; he can organize it to reflect his own image, instead of allowing himself to be submerged by it. The preceding comments about creating the world in your own image are strong indications that he seeks to identify with his superego. The difference between his ideal of himself and the individual he knows himself to be in truth, measured in terms of his social recognition or the recognition of his creations (children, works of art, etc.), will determine his state of mind. It is therefore important for him to make these images match to a certain extent, to reduce the gap as much as possible.
The psychological dynamic described earlier explains many of the pluses and minuses in his personality. His dignity and self-assurance may border on vanity; his strong instinct and ambition combined with his somewhat exaggerated individualism incline him to be self-focused. He may be proud, but he is also courageous, determined, and generous. He has the skills of an educator or an artist; moreover, he is mysteriously lucky.
Paul Wesley thrives on relating to other people. He cannot live without love!
Paul Wesley tends to live in an imaginary world; the distant and abstract sometimes interest him more than what is right at hand and realistic.
At the time of your birth, Paul Wesley’s rising sign was located in Capricorn (the Goat), while the sun was passing through the sign of Leo (the Lion). A summary of the various clues mentioned above provide Paul Wesley’s personality profile. The following key words capture the essence of Paul Wesley’s character and indicate certain contradictions which may be sources of tension:
Narcissism – Need for security – Determination – Inhibition – Pride and self-assurance – Application – Superiority – Methodical mind – Brilliance – Forethought – Generosity – Loyalty – Optimism.
Paul Wesley’s energetic, proud, and self-admiring side engages Paul Wesley’s guileful, withdrawn, calculating side either in conflict or in cooperation, depending on the circumstances.
Paul Wesley’s authority and determination often monopolize Paul Wesley’s energy, at the expense of Paul Wesley’s emotions. Or Paul Wesley may find Paul Wesley distracted from pursuing Paul Wesley’s goals by the whisperings of Paul Wesley’s heart. By middle age, however, Paul Wesley should reach a balance which gives liberal expression to all Paul Wesley’s gifts. Control over Paul Wesley’s emotions, pride, and passions should then give Paul Wesley access to the highest realms of self-realization.
Born in the three days after the rising of the new moon, Paul Wesley is said to be a “new moon” lunar type. This “soli-lunar” configuration gives him a subjective character, somewhat impulsive and sometimes emotive. Generally, he does not see the world in objective terms; instead, he bases his attitude on the feelings various situations arouse inside him.
Likewise, in human relationships, he tends to project his imaginary reality onto others instead of seeing them for what they are. As a result, his judgements and reasoning are sometimes deprived of perspective.
He may want to make an effort to refrain from overinterpreting other people’s actions, because, being the product of his imagination in most cases, his interpretations are mistaken. If he applies himself to listening more openly, people may reveal their deeper motivations. He’ll be happier and more effective as a result.
Who is Paul Wesley’s perfect match?
Paul Wesley’s sun is located at 0° LEO. His drive for psycho-sexual fulfillment would best be aroused by a person whose Moon is at 0/10° LEO or AQUARIUS.
This relationship could yield a high degree of psychological compatibility and powerful mutual attraction. The physical and psychological reality of my personality will exert a magnetic pull over the sensitivity, receptivity, tenderness, and other key qualities of my partner.
Paul Wesley’s moon is located at 14° VIRGO. His ideal match is a partner with the sun at 8/20° VIRGO or PISCES.
Paul Wesley would be particularly well-matched to someone who mirrors his underlying psychic and unconscious aspirations. The secret ideal he cherishes of the perfect partner would be aroused; it would harmonize beautifully with his ideal imaginary lover. This great psychic compatibility is the result of a harmonious relationship between the Moon of the masculine chart and the sun of the feminine one. It is propitious to a rich flow of energies between the most hidden and secret parts of both people. They are linked by an unconscious emotional bond.
Paul Wesley’s Venus is located at 3° CANCER. His ideal match is a partner with Mars at 0/10° CANCER or CAPRICORN.
This type of partner would complement Paul Wesley perfectly in emotional and sentimental terms. This person would reflect and fulfill Paul’s ideal of sensuality to the greatest degree. Moreover, Paul’s ideal partner would resonate lastingly with his own psychic projections of his ideal. This positive relationship between the unconscious sexual yearnings of both partners would be likely to yield sensual relations of a tantalizingly mysterious and secret nature.
A romantic, Paul Wesley needs tenderness, gentleness, and goodness. Because he is seeking a kindred spirit to found a warm nest, lasting and solid, he would be wise to choose this type of mate. This sensitive type will love being needed by him. This person enjoys being protective and is also attracted to building a nest in which to stay at home and perhaps raise children.
Paul Wesley’s Planet Mars is located at 24° LIBRA. Paul Wesley’s ideal match is a partner with Venus at 18/30° LIBRA or ARIES.
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