If you really want to improve and transform yourself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution. That is, your continual need for security, tendency to escape into fantasy, hunger for approval, longing for the past, and fear of the future.

2toesup sometimes senses a conflict between its desire for social and professional success and its need for a stable, secure domestic life. It is deeply committed to both ideas and does not always succeed in reconciling their schedules and demands on it. Sometimes it feels as though it will never be able to find a balance. However, no job promotion will really satisfy it if it has neglected its most intimate needs and desires. Although it sometimes seems easier to it to climb the rungs of the career ladder out there in the real world, if it merely sacrifices its domestic life, it is only trying to fool itself. It should accept the fact that its domestic life is the true basis and foundation of its development. All its career endeavors and success will be even more rewarding if they are supported by a safe, warm personal life.