If you want to improve and transform yourself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution. These weaknesses could be your continual need for security, your tendency to escape into fantasy, your hunger for approval, your longing for the past, your fear of the future, or your investment systems.

3shadessofmo’s mind tends to soar from one ideal or theory to the next without ever adopting any one approach. Because she rarely takes the trouble to steady her vision and deepen it, or to stick to an activity after it becomes tiresome, she is often disappointed. Her lack of constancy and her inability to commit herself to any long-term effort, as well as her tendency to evade responsibility, could be obstacles to her life in the real world.