If you really want to improve and transform yourself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution.

You sometimes feel a conflict between your desire for social and professional success and your need for a stable, secure domestic life. You are deeply committed to both ideas and often find it difficult to reconcile their demands on you. Sometimes it feels as though you will never be able to find a balance, but no job promotion will really satisfy you if you neglect your most intimate needs and desires. Although it sometimes seems easier to you to climb the rungs of the career ladder out there in the real world, if you merely sacrifice your domestic life, you are only trying to fool yourself. You should accept the fact that your domestic life is the true basis and foundation of your development. All your career endeavors and success will be even more rewarding if they are supported by a safe, warm personal life.

4kpapi may find themselves feeling frustration and insecurity in their relations with other people, or in matters related to communication, until they find the right direction for themselves. They are fairly skeptical and sometimes overly rational, so they do not always trust in the power of their own imagination and emotions, and they are even more wary of other people’s imagination and emotions. Their approach is sometimes hindered by pessimism, and people may find them cynical. 4kpapi would do well to learn to be more generous with themselves in their intimate and social relationships instead of immediately snuffing out other people’s spontaneous expressions of hope and goodwill.