A Jay Popoff is trying to overcome his feelings of insecurity. To do so, he needs a home: a dwelling, a territory, or perhaps a safe space or setting where he can rest, and let down his systems of defense against the outer world. He is ready to make some sacrifices in order to maintain and consolidate the structure he has chosen. True inner security, based on real knowledge of himself, his abilities, and his shortcomings, his strengths and his weaknesses would no doubt be most effective and would allow him to remain open to the varieties of experience offered by the world.
A Jay Popoff’s personality and behavior are liable to be disrupted by a contradiction between the masculine and feminine archetypes ruling his psyche. Because his sensitivity is in conflict with his determination, his attitude and performance may be moody, fluctuating, and uncertain. Usually, he has the feeling he has to make superhuman efforts to succeed in assuaging his yearnings and fulfilling his ambitions. His unconscious, sensitive side often disapproves of his conscious endeavors and stealthily works to defeat them, causing crucial omissions, mistakes, and gaps which effectively sabotage his plans. In his relationships, the images he builds up and projects on the other are contradictory. As a result, any bond, even if it is pleasant and positive, also grates on his nerves. He finds it dissatisfying and irritating at the same time.
A Jay Popoff has a great potential for creative, constructive accomplishments; however, it is sometimes difficult for him to gain access to this part of himself. He is confident in himself and life but tends to be nonchalant. Sometimes he needs a little stimulation to get himself rolling and take some initiative. His optimism and inner certainty do not always drive him to give his utmost efforts to achieve a goal. The communications skills he possesses are an advantage as well as a handicap. He makes use of his theatrical gifts, convincing eloquence, and ability to listen. The best careers for him would be teaching, communications, philosophy, the legal profession, theater, and public relations.
You were raised in an atmosphere of sobriety and rigor, and as a result, you grew up very fast. You inherited a spirit of self-sufficiency and tend to be rather uncompromising. You have a touchy sense of your personal dignity and worth, and it’s almost as though you were fighting an inner battle with your father. The psychological models you received from your father or a father figure may not have played a major role in shaping your relationships with the outer world and society, but you compensated for this with individual determination. As a result, although you are skillful, meticulous, conscientious, and efficient, a lack of self-confidence and personal assurance sometimes makes you timid and hesitant. You sometimes feel as though you are only masquerading as a respectable, sober adult. You tend to be far too critical of yourself, and rarely feel satisfied that you are living up to your ideal. These unnecessary guilt feelings may lead you to turn down the prominent career positions for which you are fully qualified. You are aware that early success is often short-lived and fragile, and that those who know how to be patient and persistent, like you, often reap the rewards.
Jay Popoff is insecure and craves order in his life. He prefers to do things according to a predetermined plan and is rigid. He struggles to make friends easily and is sometimes wary of relations with those he is most attracted to. He is gifted at worrying.
A Jay Popoff delightedly immerse themselves in the depths of human experience, stretching their intellectual, emotional, and spiritual resources to their maximum.
A Jay Popoff is always on the move, in search of new contacts. Curious about all sorts of different subjects, he takes care to inform himself about many things. He enjoys conversation and communication and hopes to be admired for his talent and wit. Due to his wide variety of interests, however, he can be something of a dilettante, and his thinking may sometimes lack discipline.
Despite your cool exterior, you are highly sensitive. In some cases, your rather austere and rigid behavior and your refusal to yield too readily to sentimentality discourage others from being too demonstrative of their tenderness and affection. You have spells of melancholy in which you do not feel worthy of being loved and tend to forbid yourself emotional fulfillment. An austere or somewhat traumatic childhood experience may be the source of this behavior. You may have suffered rejection in your infancy, and, as a result, lacked the parental love which is essential to the cohesion of a personality and identity. In order to feel secure, and to protect yourself from ever suffering rejection or abandonment again, you withdrew into yourself and developed your aloofness as a defense mechanism. When you finally let down your defenses and allow yourself to express your feelings, you tend to become impassioned and exalted. You are fairly introverted and egocentric and have a powerful sense of your own identity.
A Jay Popoff’s intellect is sometimes haunted by disturbing philosophical anguishes and a need for security. As a result, his adaptation to life and surroundings is somewhat complicated. Certain inhibitions may sometimes inhibit his intellectual activity.
Because you were born with a strong sense of individuality, you developed an original and independent identity early in life. You were able to challenge the education and values you received from your family and class tradition, and you were able to forge a strong, original personality and philosophy. Your relationships are usually free of conflict, because you are able to reconcile your need for independence with your desire for affection. However, your partners should be open and lively people, able to keep pace with you in your rapid evolution. You have an inspired and extremely lively wit and a brisk interest in the future, technological progress, and new lifestyles. You would be especially successful in communications-related careers like journalism, film, TV, radio, and advertising. Although you are an individualist, you have a powerful desire to contribute to the evolution of society and better its development.
Jay Popoff’s attractions are usually immediate and intense. They rise quickly to fever pitch. The story of these passions is often dramatic to excess, combining all the plot elements of a classic love tragedy: jealousy, possessiveness, agony as an erotic stimulant, etc.
A Jay Popoff’s birth chart indicates that an emotional function is usually expressed carefully and reasonably. Distrustful of his emotional urges and somewhat wary of his feelings, he tries to rid himself of all partiality and try to get some perspective and distance before making an emotional commitment.
Jay Popoff, the subject of this text, is constantly subjected to nervous tension. This tension wears him out and exhausts him, leading to a variety of problems in his life. He is likely to marry someone younger than him, either chronologically or in terms of their sense of duty. But perhaps his second marriage will be more reasonable and satisfying.
A Jay Popoff is ruled by their sensuality, devoting themselves body and soul to their passions. The flood of sensation may sometimes complicate their entire existence. Moreover, they tend to be drawn to people who are fairly quirky. It would be wiser for them to avoid making any definitive commitment to this type of person, especially if they are a Scorpio.
A Jay Popoff has the passionate, importunate nature of a fervent lover. Indeed, affairs of the heart are one of the main purposes in life. Your personal charm and magnetism are compellingly seductive; unfortunately, your attempts at conquest do not always lead to the fulfillment and satisfaction of your desires. Due to your impulsiveness and impatience to initiate new encounters, your approach to those you are attracted to may sometimes lack tact and delicacy. As a result of the foregoing, it may be somewhat difficult for you to maintain stable and harmonious relationships. Indeed, your emotional behavior is subject to a conflict between your quest for love and your need to satisfy your lust. Your outpourings of affection and your need to be loved in return sometimes create complicated situations in which lust may be confused with love, or love may exist without lust, and you may feel unrequited or unfulfilled. This inner contradiction is a sign of your tendency to derive pleasure from suffering – either your own or that of your partner. The relationship thus becomes the setting for a sort of power struggle, weakening it as a source of psychological equilibrium. Nevertheless, you could sublimate this difficulty through artistic expression.
A Jay Popoff is characterized by strong sensual and affectionate urges which drive them to seek pleasure. Their need for romantic fulfillment may compel them to marry, because they also seek the legal and social legitimacy the institution of marriage confers on an emotional bond. Indeed, the household is liable to be prosperous and even opulent, as if this offered further evidence that they had indeed achieved success. However, privately, they might be less committed to certain obligations and duties. At worst, they might deny the commitments that their optimism and expansiveness made them rush into too soon. If this were to be the case, the outward image of the couple’s success (wealth and comfort, etc.) would only be a façade which compensated for its emotional impoverishment and failure. Sooner or later, this hypocrisy might provoke a full-blown conflict. A second possibility is that a psychic incompatibility may gradually take root, pitting their romantic nature against the prerogatives of their career.
A Jay Popoff is cautious and reserved, often unwilling to open up to others if they’re not sure of being accepted. They’ll always hang back a bit from their emotional impulses, rationing out their expressions of affection, because they’ve learned – sometimes at their expense – that even the most harmonious relationships require some compromise. For A Jay Popoff, “good fences make good neighbors,” and well-marked boundaries can prevent future suffering. Thus, even when they’re in love, they remain fairly circumspect. When they find themselves attracted to a partner, they privately engage in a careful analysis of their personality and life story, endeavoring to know them profoundly, to see whether they’re likely to be able to share their life and future with them. As a result of their sensitivity, A Jay Popoff has a profound affinity for all of the arts. Music, literature, painting, and graphic arts are likely to enrich their existence and make it pleasant. They could progress in any career in which balance, order, and practicality predominate.
A Jay Popoff has a mental aptitude for comparing, evaluating, and weighing information. This intellectual modus operandi has enabled him to develop an innate sense of values, both artistic and ethical, as well as a remarkable ability to relate to other people. His appreciative, conciliatory attitude makes him a skillful diplomat able to untangle conflict situations deftly and with ease. In other situations, his artistic spirit is sensitive to a wide variety of harmonies.
A Jay Popoff tries to shun subjectivity and be as objective as possible. His thoughts are usually structured, and his reasoning, based on objective facts or experience, usually relates to practical goals.
A Jay Popoff has a lively and agile spirit, but he tends to apply his mental abilities in a somewhat haphazard and disorderly way. He is curious and open-minded, approaching various life experiences with an attitude free of either dogmatism or prejudice. His extremely lively mind leads him to have an opinion on every subject. Although he enjoys manipulating expressions and concepts and amuses others and himself with witty remarks, his conversations could collapse into argument and conflict. Because he is often too hasty to formulate and construct the arguments which would back up and inform his ideas, he is sometimes misunderstood. He is often blind to the rashness of his judgments and convinced they are well-founded and objective, which sometimes irritates the people around him. Actually, his overriding need to assert himself as an individual sometimes defeats discussion and prevents him from listening to the other person fairly. But if he were to succeed in disciplining his mind somewhat, he would have innumerable opportunities to apply his communications skills to a great career. Furthermore, he should be careful of his nerves, which are fairly high-strung. Any physical fitness activity would be beneficial; an Eastern discipline such as yoga or Tai-chi-chuan could teach him how to relax and improve control of his nervous and mental energies.
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