Abby Bergman’s confidence in herself sometimes falters, and she might try to compensate for this weakness by insisting on her authority over others. With the people she is emotionally committed to, the same nagging feelings of insecurity prevent her from expressing her generosity and love fully; her extreme independence sometimes hides an inability to abandon herself and a lack of assurance.

You are shy and have difficulty asserting yourself. You may have lacked a father figure who could provide you with the security and guidance that you need to grow into a strong individual. As a result, you developed a system to protect yourself, which was useful when you were a child. However, as you grow older this system has become entrenched, and it is difficult for you to manage your life without it. You rely on psychological defense mechanisms to protect you from negative influences, but these mechanisms have become a hindrance to your development. You also feel guilty about your behavior, and you judge yourself harshly. You should gradually build up a strong inner discipline and acquire the strength to face the problems of life in a detached and mature way.

You are an individualist who believes in freedom and independence. You have shaken off the social conventions of your class and adopted an innovative lifestyle. Your passionate convictions can sometimes cause tension in your relationships, as you are an uncompromising partner. You need to learn to recognize your own limitations and accept the responsibility you have to other people. If you don’t, you are likely to be embroiled in conflictual relationships all the time. The roots of your extreme behavior may lie in your relationship with your father or teachers when you were younger. For one reason or another, you may have rejected the paternal image or refused to identify with your father, in the same way that you are rejecting social conventions today. In every important life decision you make, you have to rely on yourself to figure out the appropriate behavior. And, as is often the case, you have to impose limits on your own desires in relation to reality and the law.

Abby Bergman likes to be surrounded by people and to be constantly interacting with them. She loves learning about new things and is always looking for new ways to improve herself. Because of this, she can be a bit of a dilettante when it comes to her thinking. She is very curious and loves to be informed about everything, which can lead to her being a bit undisciplined at times. However, she is determined to do the best that she can, and she is very friendly and open-minded.

Abby Bergman’s intellect is lively, agile, and sensitive. However, she does not always avail herself of it and may be confused or irrational in some situations. Although she enjoys playing with words, ideas, and concepts, her thought sometimes lacks discipline and structure. She is fairly preoccupied with details and may tend to waste her nervous and mental energy in futile verbal outpourings. Furthermore, her feelings sometimes blur her objective vision of phenomena and people, which may cause her to make errors in judgment.

Abby Bergman maintains strong ties with her past, and it often seems difficult for her to open her heart to new people. Her love affairs might exist on the surface level, because her lust and sensual desire rarely turn into a need to understand, protect, and care for the other. Moreover, it is difficult for her to meet partners who combine the ideals of the tender parent and the great lover.

Abby Bergman has a sensitive personality. She may jump to conclusions, which could disrupt relationships, as well as career plans. She is subject to cyclical energy flows and goes from periods of feverish activity to periods of withdrawal and introspection. The aggressive element in her behavior may be explained by emotional problems she may have experienced in infancy: her mother, or a mother figure, may have had an energetic and volatile personality.

Abby Bergman’s sensitivity and emotions are often in conflict with her instincts. This inner discord makes her a fairly complicated relationship partner, and her behavior sometimes strikes others as mysterious or baffling. She is liable to switch from one attitude to the opposite. Sexuality is an important part of her life, and her relationships are most often motivated by her desires. Nevertheless, due to the strength of her instincts, passion may overwhelm her and drag her into situations she cannot always control, which intermingle erotic ecstasy and anguish, guilt, and aggressiveness.

Abby Bergman was taught to experience love in a certain way by her family, social class, or religion. She is determined to experiment with a new style. Her idealistic aspirations may be a form of escapism. They encourage her to cast off conventional romantic practices and customs and embark on new adventures.

Abby Bergman’s birth chart indicates an emotional function which is usually expressed carefully and reasonably. Distrustful of her emotional urges and somewhat wary of her feelings, Abby tries to rid herself of all partiality and try to get some perspective and distance before making an emotional commitment.

Abby Bergman reacts to the idea of being tied down to a static relationship repugnant. She feels it would deprive her forever of excitement and novelty. Abby Bergman is likely to marry several times, unless she chooses an adventurer or a wanderer as a companion, and she lives a thrilling life together.

Abby Bergman has a problem with commitment. It’s disruption of her inner balance that caused her various romantic problems in her youth. She’s maturing now, and she should be able to overcome this fear and enjoy a healthy independent social life while still fulfilling her need to love and be loved in her home.

Abby Bergman is cautious and reserved by nature, often unwilling to open herself to others if she isn’t sure she’ll be accepted. She hangs back somewhat from her emotional impulses, parceling out her expressions of affection, because she’s learned that even the most harmonious relationships require some compromise. For Abby, “good fences make good neighbors,” and well-marked boundaries can prevent future suffering. Thus, even when Abby is in love, she remains fairly circumspect. When she finds herself attracted to a partner, she privately engages in a careful analysis of their personality and life story, endeavoring to know them profoundly, to see whether she’s likely to be able to share her life and future with them. As a result of her sensitivity, Abby has a profound affinity for all of the arts. Music, literature, painting, and graphic arts are likely to enrich her existence and make it pleasant. In any career in which balance, order, and practicality predominate, Abby could progress.

You have a romantic imagination, soaring with idealism, dreams, and poetry. You are emotive and hypersensitive, making you especially vulnerable emotionally, since you are sometimes overwhelmed by your feelings and affects. Although you seek an ideal soulmate, a partner with whom you could maintain blissful, smooth relations, you are sometimes met with disillusionment. Because your rather excessive sensitivity and your need to merge with the other are deep and powerful enough, they can submerge your judgment and discernment, so you sometimes form extremely intense bonds too quickly with individuals who are not appropriate partners in many ways. When you meet someone, you fall under the enchantment of your dream of ideal love and cannot keep yourself from delighting in a reverie of future romance, placing the other on a pedestal. Early on in the relationship, you yield to another of your characteristic urges and lose yourself in the individual who is so dear to you, melding with them, only to awaken one morning and find yourself as if in the arms of a stranger, greatly astounded and disappointed. Actually, your psyche is constructed in such a way as to make your sensitivity a function of the environment, in many cases; it follows the flow of momentary emotions and impressions. Before you take on any major commitments, you should make a conscious effort to evaluate the relationship realistically, and see whether the person really reciprocates your intense love, for you may merely be in love with the mirage of an ideal partner. Your tendency to believe in your illusions may mark you as an easy prey for people with bad intentions. It would be a good idea for you to find a different object for your affections, or a form of sublimation, because you tend to be so disappointed by your great emotional investments. The delicacy and subtlety of your imagination procure artistic refinement for you, and you love the arts, music, and literature, which could all be good sources of emotional involvement and fulfillment. Because your sensitivity also makes it easy for you to empathize with the psychological or social difficulties your peers are struggling with, you might also find it rewarding to commit yourself to social work.

Abby Bergman is curious, skeptical, and pragmatic. She has a shrewd, inquisitorial mind. She always tries to detect the hidden mechanisms and processes behind the phenomena she observes. As a result, she has developed an ability to detect the truth behind appearances and the cause behind the effect. Although this way of thinking is based on a certain logic, and there is evidence of structure and cohesion in her deductive approach, it is not always purely intellectual. Indeed, its sources lie in a certain empiricism, in facts which have been experienced, so it is open to improvement. For this reason, its fields of application are highly diverse, although research in the hard sciences, psychology, and metaphysics seem to be the best career choices.

Abby Bergman expresses her thoughts and ideas in direct, spontaneous outbursts. She is fairly extroverted and eager to discover and understand the outer world. An idealist, she looks forward to a bright future but is sometimes subjective and reckless.

Abby Bergman has a lively and agile spirit. She is curious and open-minded, approaching various life experiences without either dogmatism or prejudice. As a result of the liveliness of her mind, she tends to have an opinion on every subject, but she does not always have the patience or perspective necessary to examine a subject and gain in-depth knowledge of it. Abby enjoys manipulating expressions and concepts and amuses herself with witty remarks, satire, and controversy. If she learned to control her flow of words better and elaborate her thoughts more, she might make a talented communicator. Because she is often too hasty to formulate and construct the arguments which would back up and inform her ideas, she is sometimes misunderstood. Abby is often blind to the rashness of her judgments and convinced they are well-founded and objective, which sometimes irritates the people around her. If she were to succeed in disciplining her mind somewhat, she would have innumerable opportunities to apply her communications skills to a great career. However, she would do well to be careful of her nerves.