If you really want to improve and transform yourself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution: your dependency on other people, your uncertainty, your sentimentalism, and your weakness for comfort.

Adore Delano,

You may experience discord in relationships. Although you are friendly and outgoing and commit yourself to friendships and partnerships, you often find it difficult to balance your own needs, desires, and goals with the objective reality of others and their individual desires and needs. To understand and overcome this problem, you should accept the idea that every relationship follows more or less the same general scheme: a base of intimacy and an accomplishment or purpose apart from the relationship itself. If you succeed in defining, through discussion and communication, what sort of intimate relationship you and your partners want to maintain and what accomplishment or purpose they hope to achieve, many conflicts will be avoided.

Adore Delano often encounters conflict in relationships because of her tendency to be self-focused and impulsively take charge. Her certainty that she is bound to succeed, combined with her aggressiveness, can resentment others. She would do well to meditate on the concepts of authority and individualism to better understand how to interact with others.

Adore Delano can be hypersensitive and easily offended, although she frequently changes her opinion and doesn’t hold a grudge. She abhors conflict and is a good listener. Her key to self-improvement will be learning to control her impressionability.

Adore Delano reacts peremptorily to all opposition and will brook no contradiction. Her desires are sometimes imperious, and she expresses them impulsively, by fits and starts, which may elicit resentment and antagonism in her partners. Life will force her to set more universal goals and centers of interest for herself. It would be a good idea for her to release some excess internal tension through physical exercise.