If you want to improve yourself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution. These might be your insatiable appetites, your stubbornness, your grimness, or your reluctance to change.

Agusbob may experience discord in relationships. Although he is friendly and outgoing and commits himself to friendships and partnerships, he often finds it difficult to balance his own needs, desires, and goals with the objective reality of others and their individual desires and needs. To understand and overcome this problem, he should accept the idea that every relationship follows more or less the same general scheme: a base of intimacy and an accomplishment or purpose apart from the relationship itself. If he succeeds in defining, through discussion and communication, what sort of intimate relationship he and his partners want to maintain and what accomplishment or purpose they hope to achieve, many conflicts will be avoided.

Agusbob tends to lure others to him and gains their love and approval. As a lover, Agusbob might be the impetuous type who rushes into a relationship without thinking, making a great show of affection at the outset. Agusbob could learn to evaluate the pros and cons of an emotional commitment more carefully if he wants to avoid leaving a trail of broken hearts.