If you want to improve your life, the first step is to become aware of your weaknesses- things that might be holding you back and preventing your evolution. Here are some examples: your perfectionism, your tendency to hyperfocus on minutiae, your over intellectualization, and your comfort with a constant state of worry.

AJ Calloway often finds herself at a crossroads – between her desire for social and professional success and her need for a stable, secure domestic life. She is deeply committed to both ideas, but sometimes it feels as though she will never be able to find a balance. However, no job promotion will really satisfy her if she neglects her most intimate needs and desires. Although it sometimes seems easier to AJ to climb the rungs of the career ladder out there in the real world, if she merely sacrifices her domestic life, she is only trying to fool herself. She should accept the fact that her domestic life is the true basis and foundation of her development. All her career endeavors and success will be even more rewarding if they are supported by a safe, warm personal life.