If you are serious about changing, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution. These could be things like your dependency on other people, your uncertainty, or your sentimentalism.

Akpororo may experience discord in relationships. Although he is friendly and outgoing and commits himself to friendships and partnerships, he often finds it difficult to balance his own needs, desires, and goals with the objective reality of others and their individual desires and needs. To understand and overcome this problem, he should accept the idea that every relationship follows more or less the same general scheme: a base of intimacy and an accomplishment or purpose apart from the relationship itself. If he succeeds in defining, through discussion and communication, what sort of intimate relationship he and his partners want to maintain and what accomplishment or purpose they hope to achieve, many conflicts will be avoided.

Akpororo encounters conflict in relationships because of its tendency to be self-focused and impulsive. Its certainty of its bound to succeed and impulsiveness could arouse resentment from others. Akpororo would do well to meditate on the concepts of authority and individualism.

Akpororo reacts peremptorily to all opposition and will brook no contradiction. His desires are sometimes imperious, and he expresses them impulsively, by fits and starts, which may elicit resentment and antagonism in his partners. Life will force him to set more universal goals and centers of interest for himself. It would be a good idea for him to release some excess internal tension through physical exercise.