If you want to improve yourself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution. These can be your insatiable appetites, your stubbornness, your grimness, and your reluctance to change.

Alejandra Ochoa may experience discord in relationships. Although she is friendly and outgoing and commits herself to friendships and partnerships, she often finds it difficult to balance her own needs, desires, and goals with the objective reality of others and their individual desires and needs. To understand and overcome this problem, she should accept the idea that every relationship follows more or less the same general scheme: a base of intimacy and an accomplishment or purpose apart from the relationship itself. If she succeeds in defining, through discussion and communication, what sort of intimate relationship she and her partners want to maintain and what accomplishment or purpose they hope to achieve, many conflicts will be avoided.

Alejandra Ochoa has fairly single-minded and obstinate desires. She displays a remarkable persistence in the pursuit of her commitments, despite any obstacles she may encounter. She is highly charged with sensuality and sexuality, and they have a great deal of influence on her behavior. Her expression in this area is sometimes fraught with problems because she has a tendency to try too hard to control her lustful urges. However, an emotional crisis intervening at around age 40 may bring about a total redefinition of her relationship to her sexuality.