If you are really serious about becoming a better person, the first step is to become aware of your weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution. These could be your overweening ego, your need to show off, your aggressiveness, and your excesses.

You sometimes struggle with the conflicting desires of wanting to be successful socially and wanting a stable, secure domestic life. You are deeply committed to both ideas and find it difficult to reconcile their schedules and demands on you. Sometimes it feels like you will never be able to find a balance. However, no job promotion will really satisfy you if you neglect your most intimate needs and desires. Although it sometimes seems easier to you to climb the rungs of the career ladder out there in the real world, if you sacrifice your domestic life, you are only fooling yourself. You should accept the fact that your domestic life is the true basis and foundation of your development. All your career endeavors and success will be even more rewarding if they are supported by a safe, warm personal life.

Alejandro Amenábar may become aware of a need to change his direction in life. This turning point in his attitude may occur as he reaches the age of 30. In the first part of his life, he will have undergone a period of evolution and ripening, which is a vital part of the process of change characterized by a fairly constant inner awareness and reexamination of his inner feeling of insecurity. To prepare himself for the influx of new energy and free himself from negative attitudes, he must confront as consciously as possible the challenges related to his lack of inner structure or his need for an identity. This psychological work could lead to a total reorganization of his life under the best possible conditions.