Alfonso Gomez intuitively senses the need for others and seeks a balance between his individual ambitions and need to give to others and be loved and recognized in return. Marriage and friendship could be realms to which he is especially devoted, but they may also prove to be a source of conflict and disillusion.

At the moment of your birth, the two celestial “lights” (the sun and the moon) were symmetrically aligned. This was an auspicious sign of harmony between the masculine and feminine archetypes, which was beneficial to you. It was the source of balance and understanding between the two main psychological realms which composed your personality. You thus enjoyed a positive complementarity and understanding between the conscious and unconscious aspects of your psyche, between your determination and your routines, between your drive for self-assertion and your receptivity, your ideal and your sensitivity. Your parents almost certainly reflected a positive image of the marriage relationship to you, and it was likely that they encouraged you to develop your own individuality. As a result, you were and are able to be comfortable with yourself as you are instead of striving to attain your parents’ ideal. This has definitely contributed to the maintenance of a good relationship with them and the rest of the family. In your emotional relationships with your peers, one of the effects of the masculine/feminine harmony is that the images your ego projects on the other are especially constructive. The bonds of the relationship are not felt to be constraints, the energy which flows between the two people is a source of mutual happiness, not regret. No major personal conflicts are projected onto the “other” – that is, the significant other.

Alfonso Gomez is a sensitive and caring individual who derives great comfort from being around family. He is also very impressionable, and can be hesitant to change or try new things. He is happiest when living in a stable environment and following a routine.

Alfonso Gomez has a lively and curious intelligence, the very opposite of empty rhetoric and studiousness. He is agile and adaptable and can not only analyze difficult situations objectively but also demonstrate a profound comprehension when faced with a psychological problem.

Alfonso Gomez has a sensitive personality. He may jump to conclusions, which could disrupt relationships, as well as career plans. He is subject to cyclical energy flows and go from periods of feverish activity to periods of withdrawal and introspection. The aggressive element in his behavior may be explained by emotional problems he may have experienced in infancy: his mother, or a mother figure, may have had an energetic and volatile personality.

Although your demeanor is cold and distant, you are extremely sensitive. In some cases, your rather austere and rigid behavior and refusal to yield too readily to sentimentality discourage others from being too demonstrative of their tenderness and affection. You have spells of melancholy in which you do not feel worthy of being loved and tend to forbid yourself emotional fulfillment. An austere or somewhat traumatic childhood experience may be the source of this behavior. It is difficult for your inner self to be detached from this past life, and you sometimes have trouble reconciling the image you have of yourself as an adult with the one you acquired back then. The idea you have of yourself as an individual is related to the image your parents projected onto you as a child. Nevertheless, the past is history, and you are now an adult. It should be easy for you to rid yourself of these phantoms through self-work. You have the ability to overcome your mistakes and great endurance and will power to achieve your goals. Nevertheless, you must not repress your sensitivity in order to succeed.

Alfonso Gomez struggled to muster the energy to face unfamiliar situations. He was more or less passive and had a strong urge to take refuge in the past.

Alfonso Gomez is fairly shy, reserved, and discreet when it comes to matters of the heart. Even in intimate moments, he remains modest and does not always readily express his feelings. He is sensitive and giving, wishing to be of service to those he loves. He deserves to be made as happy as he makes his partners.

Alfonso Gomez was born with an emotional function that expresses itself in a direct and fairly impulsive way. He enjoys reaching out to other people and making discoveries. An eternal teenager with his gaze riveted on the future, Alfonso is imbued with an eminently subjective and personal idealism.

Alfonso Gomez is a blend of strength and vulnerability. His emotions are often incompatible with his great sensitivity, which makes his behavior confusing to those close to him. His family ties are quite strong and may have hindered his personal development. Emotionally, Alfonso is especially attracted to strong individuals – the serious, silent type. However, they must be able to understand him and protect him from himself and others. Love and his children, if he chooses to have them, will become the center of his life, so it is important that he chooses the right person to be his life partner.

Alfonso Gomez was slightly timid by nature, content to stay at home while his partner dreamed only of adventure and travel. This meant that his love life may become somewhat strained. He may be attracted to people who are very extroverted and not really suited to him.

Alfonso Gomez may be characterized by strong sensual and affectionate urges which drive him to seek pleasure. His need for romantic fulfillment may compel him to marry, because he also seeks the legal and social legitimacy the institution of marriage confers on an emotional bond. Indeed, the household is liable to be prosperous and even opulent, as if this offered further evidence that he had indeed achieved success. However, privately, he might be less committed to certain obligations and duties.

Alfonso Gomez is hypersensitive and tends to relive the anxieties, apprehensions, and romantic absolutes of his first love relationships, which occurred around the ages of 13-14 years or 20-21 years. He is exquisitely sensitive, but almost completely barricaded behind a layer of aloofness. He will not settle for anything less than eternal commitment, total harmony, and absolute loyalty. He is sometimes presumed to be cold, even by those close to him. He usually hides his emotional reactions or does not even allow them to reach the level of his consciousness, in an effort to protect his sensitivity, which he sees as his weak point. He is fairly vulnerable, even in the intimacy of a stable and established relationship. Usually, he will disguise his strong feelings as a kind of possessiveness or even jealousy. Certain misfortunes may arouse a negative emotional state inside him, and he feels unworthy of the love which is lavished on him. This psychological prohibition which rules over all of his desires and affects should loosen with the passage of time; likewise, his fear of approaching the other will diminish. As a result, the second part of his romantic life will be more rewarding. In any case, if you want to experience a harmonious love relationship and gratify yourself emotionally, the defense mechanisms you have elaborated to make yourself inaccessible to others will have to be dismantled.

Alfonso Gomez was curious, skeptical, and pragmatic. He had a shrewd, inquisitorial mind and was always trying to detect the hidden mechanisms and processes behind the phenomena he observed. As a result, he had developed an ability to detect the truth behind appearances and the cause behind the effect. Although this way of thinking was based on a certain logic, and there was evidence of structure and cohesion in his deductive approach, it was not always purely intellectual. Indeed, its sources lay in a certain empiricism, in facts which had been experienced, so it was open to improvement. For this reason, its fields of application were highly diverse, although research in the hard sciences, psychology, and metaphysics seemed to be the best career choices.

Alfonso Gomez does not express his thoughts and ideas smoothly or easily. He tends to be subjective, seeking to know himself better through a process of introversion.

Alfonso Gomez has intellectual faculties and wit that are sometimes slowed down because they are turned inward. Because he tends to be oriented toward himself, Alfonso Gomez rarely tries to communicate with others for the simple pleasure of doing so. Indeed, he sometimes feels misunderstood. Moreover, it seems difficult for him to express the complexity of his inner perceptions.