If you want to improve your life, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be keeping you back and preventing your evolution. These could be your perfectionism, your tendency to focus on minutiae, your over intellectualization, and your comfort with a constant state of worry.

Alla Bruletova may experience discord in relationships. Although she is friendly and outgoing and commits herself to friendships and partnerships, she often finds it difficult to balance her own needs, desires, and goals with the objective reality of others and their individual desires and needs. To understand and overcome this problem, she should accept the idea that every relationship follows more or less the same general scheme: a base of intimacy and an accomplishment or purpose apart from the relationship itself. If she succeeds in defining, through discussion and communication, what sort of intimate relationship she and her partners want to maintain and what accomplishment or purpose they hope to achieve, many conflicts will be avoided.

Alla Bruletova has a variety of talents, but it can be difficult for her to concentrate on a single interest. She is ruled by her nervousness and her suggestibility, which can sometimes make it difficult for her to use her adaptive abilities to their fullest potential. To be truly effective, she needs to learn to control her jittery mind. If she experiences respiratory problems, it will be a signal that the need to change is urgent.

Alla Bruletova tends to be rigid in relationships. In some extreme cases, she may be jealous. Because she has a great deal of emotional impact on the other, she sometimes feels invulnerable to any outside influence and will struggle with reexamining her own attitude.

Alla Bruletova has succeeded largely due to her hard work and organizational skills. She is able to work long hours and follow a strict strategy in order to achieve her goals. She can be demanding and quick to anger, which can harm her relationships. She should work to be less dogmatic and trust others more, in order to be successful.

To trust yourself better and gain self-assurance, the first step is to learn to say no. Once you are capable of saying no to others, you can say yes to life. You must develop your awareness of all the things you love and feel positive about, as well as all the changes you hope to make in order to enjoy life more. This is the foundation that will support you, the inexhaustible source and center of the transformation of your personality. Infantile anxieties which arose in childhood when you were helpless may be obstacles to your evolution. Sometimes they actually prevent you from daring to confront challenges you would be altogether capable of assuming now! One of the reasons you yield to these childhood fears so readily is that they procure a feeling so familiar to you that, although it is negative, it is a reassuring part of your identity. However, the more often you reinforce this complex by yielding to that feeling, the more unaware you become of your true emotional state. The irrational childhood fears have also reinforced your pessimistic tendencies. It is difficult for you to believe in the sunny side of life because of the pernicious little voice inside you that claims you don’t really deserve all this goodness. This side of you could undermine your vitality and force you to compensate or flee from reality. In doing so, you limit your power to bring about a positive change in yourself or your life. It’s a vicious cycle, and to free yourself, the first step is to free yourself from the fears which prevent you from taking full advantage of life. You can succeed if you arrange a relaxed, positive environment for yourself, establish sincere relations with one or two special people, and, if possible, finds a setting – perhaps a yoga class – in which you can practice relaxation exercises.