If you want to improve yourself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution. These could be things like your perfectionism, your tendency to hyperfocus on minutiae, your over intellectualization, or your comfort with a constant state of worry.

Ally Robinson sometimes feels a conflict between her desire for social and professional success and her need for a stable, secure domestic life. She is deeply committed to both ideas and does not always succeed in reconciling their schedules and demands on her. Sometimes it feels as though she will never be able to find a balance. However, no job promotion will really satisfy her if she has neglected her most intimate needs and desires. Although it sometimes seems easier to her to climb the rungs of the career ladder out there in the real world, if she merely sacrifices her domestic life, she is only trying to fool herself. She should accept the fact that her domestic life is the true basis and foundation of her development. All her career endeavors and success will be even more rewarding if they are supported by a safe, warm personal life.

Ally Robinson’s energy is vast and very productive. She knows how to persevere and meet challenges, delays, and obstacles with determination and obstinacy, without altering her goals. She is fairly reluctant to change course as a result of outside intervention, preferring to bulldoze her way past any obstacles, slowly but steadily, rather than go around them. Sometimes her will is so powerful that she refuses to make any compromises or concessions, which may be a source of conflict with others. She might want to work on sharing her power or authority, which would allow her to accomplish more.

Ally Robinson has significant intellectual potential which may merely need to be managed better and oriented toward her environment. In the first part of her life, this mental energy may have some negative effects and drive her into self-destructive behavior. She will have to make an effort to understand certain obsessions, which are unconscious and therefore all the more powerful and irresistible, if she wants to overcome the feelings of failure they cause. A complete psychological metamorphosis may occur when she makes up her mind to accept and understand the matters she has rejected and repressed.