If you really want to improve and transform yourself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution. Alvaro Dias has identified that he has a need to bluff, a difficulty managing certain things, instability, and a reluctance to change certain opinions.

You sometimes feel a conflict between your desire for social and professional success and your need for a stable, secure domestic life. You are deeply committed to both ideas and do not always succeed in reconciling their schedules and demands on you. Sometimes it feels as though you will never be able to find a balance. However, no promotion will really satisfy you if you neglect your most intimate needs and desires. Although it sometimes seems easier to you to climb the rungs of the career ladder out there in the real world, if you merely sacrifice your domestic life, you are only trying to fool yourself. You should accept the fact that your domestic life is the true basis and foundation of your development. All your career endeavors and success will be even more rewarding if they are supported by a safe, warm personal life.

Alvaro Dias has a variety of talents, but it can be difficult for him to concentrate on a single interest. He is ruled by his nervousness and his suggestibility, which can sometimes make it difficult for him to use his adaptive abilities to their fullest potential and take the time to formulate the solutions to his problems. To be truly effective, it is important for him to learn to control his jittery mind; otherwise, he may drain his nervous system of energy. If he experiences respiratory problems, like asthma, it will be a sign that the need to change is urgent.

Alvaro Dias has the ability to detach himself from his emotions to analyze and observe them, which sometimes prevents him from truly engaging himself in emotional terms. He subjects all his feelings to an intellectual interpretation rather than yielding to them, and sometimes falters, hesitates, contradicts himself, and seems to say both yes and no when he has the opportunity to commit himself emotionally. He should make a conscious effort to overcome this unconscious conditioning which may be related to his childhood. He must first learn to observe and assimilate other people’s feelings instead of rejecting them, which will teach him to understand his own reactions and affects better.

Alvaro Dias might set unrealistic goals for himself and struggle with organization. These tendencies are particularly evident when it comes to his emotional relationships. In the beginning, he will idealize the potential partner, putting them on a pedestal, but then he will try to dodge his commitment and desperately plot to extricate himself. In other life pursuits, he tends to rush into activities, of which he might only have a crude, confused concept. Life could step in to urge him to slow down and induce him to organize himself with more patience and forethought.