If you want to improve your life, the first step is to become aware of your weaknesses. These might be things like being shallow, not being sincere, being indifferent, being frivolous, or being afraid of commitment.

You sometimes feel a conflict between your desire for social and professional success and your need for a stable, secure domestic life. You are deeply committed to both ideas and sometimes find it difficult to reconcile their schedules and demands on you. Sometimes it feels as though you will never be able to find a balance. However, no job promotion will really satisfy you if you neglect your most intimate needs and desires. Although it sometimes seems easier to you to climb the rungs of the career ladder out there in the real world, if you merely sacrifice your domestic life, you are only trying to fool yourself. You should accept the fact that your domestic life is the true basis and foundation of your development. All your career endeavors and success will be even more rewarding if they are supported by a safe, warm personal life.

Amanda Miguel may experience discord in relationships. Although she is friendly and outgoing and commits herself to friendships and partnerships, she often finds it difficult to balance her own needs, desires, and goals with the objective reality of others and their individual desires and needs. To understand and overcome this problem, she should accept the idea that every relationship follows more or less the same general scheme: a base of intimacy and an accomplishment or purpose apart from the relationship itself. If she succeeds in defining, through discussion and communication, what sort of intimate relationship she and her partners want to maintain and what accomplishment or purpose they hope to achieve, many conflicts will be avoided.

Amanda Miguel has a variety of talents, but it is sometimes difficult for her to concentrate on a single center of interest. Ruled by her nervousness and suggestibility, she might struggle to use her adaptive abilities to her full advantage and do not always take the time to formulate the solutions to her problems. To be truly effective, it is imperative for her to learn to control her jittery mind; otherwise, she may drain her nervous system of energy. If she encounters respiratory problems, like asthma (due to nerves), it will be a signal that the need to change is urgent.

Amanda Miguel’s energy is vast and very productive. She knows how to persevere and meet challenges, delays, and obstacles with determination and obstinacy, without altering her goals. She is fairly reluctant to change course as a result of outside intervention, preferring to bulldoze her way past any obstacles, slowly but steadily, rather than go around them. Sometimes her will is so powerful that she refuses to make any compromises or concessions, which may be a source of conflict with others. She might want to work on sharing her power or authority, which would allow her to accomplish more.

Amanda Miguel is curious but undiscriminating. She is high-strung and fluctuating; she sometimes has trouble disciplining her mind. Because she finds change and variety especially stimulating and pleasant, she may be a bit fickle as a partner in a relationship or friendship. Many of her conflicts with other people are due to her instability and lack of self-control. If she succeeds in mastering and channeling her considerable mental energy, she could be extremely effective in such fields as communications and teaching.

Amanda Miguel has fairly single-minded and obstinate desires. She displays a remarkable persistence in the pursuit of her commitments, despite any obstacles she may encounter. She is highly charged with sensuality and sexuality, and they have a great deal of influence on her behavior. Her expression in this area is sometimes fraught with problems because she has a tendency to try too hard to control her lustful urges. However, an emotional crisis intervening at around age 40 may bring about a total redefinition of her relationship to her sexuality.

As a result of your great ambitions, Amanda Miguel is fairly organized. She is able to work long and hard to achieve her goals and elaborates fairly rigid strategies to protect herself against any foreseeable obstacles. She is so absorbed in her business she does not always realize that she tends to be somewhat peremptory with the people around her and that she might do well to soften her tone and be more tactful at times. Her friendships seem stifling and superfluous to her, and she is sometimes tormented by inner conflict when she is forced to submit to another’s will. To succeed, work to be less dogmatic. Trust in yourself and other people and flexibility.