Anders Holm needs others in order to structure himself. He intuitively senses this need and seeks a balance between his individual ambitions and need to give to others and be loved and recognized in return, although it sometimes eludes him. Marriage and friendship could be realms to which he is especially devoted, but they may also prove to be a source of conflict and disillusion.
Anders Holm has a paternal complex. He lacked a father figure during his childhood, which deprived him of the patterns or models which are usually helpful in structuring a personality. Because he might have lacked a particular sense of security which could be provided by a paternal presence, as well as the examples of behavior to follow in confronting the difficulties inherent in every life, he was forced to protect himself against negative influences and find his own system in order to grow and feel secure. Although this system was quite useful to him as a child, it has now settled in to such a degree that it interferes with his evolution. Psychological defense mechanisms and crutches which were once useful now encumber his mind or inhibit his developmental efforts. As a result, in certain situations, it is difficult for him to assert himself, and he tends to remain an awkward or passive observer. Because his authoritarian urges are mainly directed at himself rather than others, he sometimes feels guilty about his behavior. He judges himself severely, and sometimes punishes himself by setting difficult tasks for himself. Gradually, he should build up a strong inner discipline and acquire the strength to face the problems of existence in a detached and mature way.
Anders Holm has a great potential for creative, constructive accomplishments; however, it is sometimes difficult for him to gain access to this part of himself. He is confident in himself and life but may tend to be nonchalant. He sometimes needs a little stimulation to get himself rolling and take some initiative. His optimism and inner certainty do not always drive him to give his utmost efforts to achieve a goal. The communications skills he possesses are an advantage as well as a handicap. He makes use of his theatrical gifts, convincing eloquence, and ability to listen. The best careers for him would be teaching, communications, philosophy, the legal profession, theater, and public relations.
Anders Holm is a person of strong will who takes great care in accomplishing his goals. He has difficulty expressing his emotions, but he has a lively sensitivity and is capable of lasting passion. As he grows older, he is likely to come into his own and acquire great intellectual and spiritual wisdom. His honesty, integrity, and sense of duty will win him recognition and appreciation. Although he is not especially enterprising, he will move into a high career position as soon as he feels sure of his abilities.
Anders Holm is lively and expressive, with a personality that can be agitated but straightforward. Unconscious feelings of insecurity compel him to act, and sometimes seek the admiration of others. As a result, he is unable to bear idleness and routine, and is in search of perpetual excitement. His reactions to others are highly individual and depend on the mood he is in at any given moment. A person of decision, a businessperson or an athlete, he often personifies boldness and impetuosity. His love life is liable to be fiery, as it obeys the imperatives of his desire for freedom and independence, and his need for change.
Anders Holm is a complicated person. His sensitivity and emotions are often in conflict with his instincts, which makes him a fairly complicated relationship partner. His behavior can strike others as mysterious or baffling. He is liable to switch from one attitude to the opposite. Sexuality is an important part of his life, and his relationships are most often motivated by his desires. Nevertheless, due to the strength of his instincts, passion may overwhelm him and drag him into situations he cannot always control, which intermingle erotic ecstasy and anguish, guilt, and aggressiveness.
Anders Holm enjoys captivating people with the elegance and ease of his expression. He is a witty and engaging flirt, an avid player of the game of love. As a result, the history of his affections is liable to be episodic, a long series of chapters about conquests or fleeting love affairs. He may carry on some love relationships by writing letters.
Anders Holm’s birth chart indicates that he has an emotional function that is usually expressed carefully and reasonably. Distrustful of his emotional urges and somewhat wary of his feelings, Anders tries to rid himself of all partiality and try to get some perspective and distance before making an emotional commitment.
Anders Holm rides on a wave of enthusiasm. In love, he is dashing and uninhibited. His frankness is sometimes devastating, and his aggressiveness sometimes creates problems. A strong-minded person, he is not ready to give up either his freedom or his taste for adventure. He tends to place loved ones on a pedestal and then find himself feeling disappointed. However, he is ready to devote himself entirely to cheering for and supporting the mate he eventually chooses.
Anders Holm has a certain innocent charm. Without making any special efforts, he is often solicited and has a number of pleasurable little romances. Fortunately, he is fairly tolerant, because he tends to be attracted to young people who may not be especially loyal or serious. It is better that he not rely on them.
Anders Holm has a romantic imagination, soaring with idealism, dreams, and poetry. He is emotive and hypersensitive, making him especially vulnerable emotionally, since he is sometimes overwhelmed by his feelings and affects. Although he seeks an ideal soulmate, a partner with whom he could maintain blissful, smooth relations, he is sometimes met with disillusionment. Because his rather excessive sensitivity and his need to merge with the other are deep and powerful enough, they can submerge his judgment and discernment, so he sometimes forms extremely intense bonds too quickly with individuals who are not appropriate partners in many ways. When he meets someone, he falls under the enchantment of his dream of ideal love and cannot keep himself from delighting in a reverie of future romance, placing the other on a pedestal. Early on in the relationship, he yields to another of his characteristic urges and loses himself in the individual who is so dear to him, melding with them, only to awaken one morning and find himself as if in the arms of a stranger, greatly astounded and disappointed. Actually, his psyche is constructed in such a way as to make his sensitivity a function of the environment, in many cases; it follows the flow of momentary emotions and impressions. Before he takes on any major commitments, he should make a conscious effort to evaluate the relationship realistically, and see whether the person really reciprocates his intense love, for he may merely be in love with the mirage of an ideal partner. His tendency to believe in his illusions may mark him as an easy prey for people with bad intentions. It would be a good idea for him to find a different object for his affections, or a form of sublimation, because he tends to be so disappointed by his great emotional investments. The delicacy and subtlety of his imagination procure artistic refinement for him, and he loves the arts, music, and literature, which could all be good sources of emotional involvement and fulfillment. Because his sensitivity also makes it easy for him to empathize with the psychological or social difficulties his peers are struggling with, he might also find it rewarding to commit himself to social work.
Anders Holm is a deeply complex individual, capable of great passion and intimacy, as well as intense conflicts and turmoil. Because of this, he is often drawn to relationships that are filled with turmoil and conflict. He is guarded and secretive, often suspicious of others, and is particularly uneasy about spontaneity and intimacy. This can make the relationship difficult, as it is often followed by frequent crises. Life is often filled with frequent clashes, arguments and spats, which act as sexual provocation for Anders. This fundamental aspect of his emotional and sexual functioning is one of the reasons he is likely to be attracted to stormy and complicated relationships.
Anders Holm’s intellect is simultaneously subjective and sensitive, acute and intuitive, always practical and deeply rooted in human experience. His memory and imagination combined with his shrewdness predisposes him to a people-oriented activity. He would be a gifted project manager, businesswoman, or scholar of history or literature.
Anders Holm tries to shun subjectivity and be as objective as possible. His thoughts are usually structured, and his reasoning, based on objective facts or experience, usually relates to practical goals.
Anders Holm is a person who makes mistakes in judgment and has a difficult time understanding social realities and prevailing opinion. His judgments are hasty, his decisions reckless, and he overestimates his abilities. He often tries to avoid obstacles by dodging certain duties, even if this puts him in legal jeopardy. Anders also has a difficult time maintaining relationships, as he often breaks promises and tries to duck responsibility. If Anders continues to behave this way, he is exposing himself to the same lack of sincerity from his partners.
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