If Anne Wilson wants to improve and transform herself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding her back and preventing her evolution. These could include her preference for illusion, her hypersensitivity, her emotionalism, her lack of self-confidence, and her guilt.

Although every relationship has a base of intimacy and an accomplishment or purpose apart from the relationship itself, Anne Wilson often finds it difficult to balance her own needs, desires, and goals with the objective reality of others and their individual desires and needs. To understand and overcome this problem, she should accept the idea that every relationship follows more or less the same general scheme: a base of intimacy and an accomplishment or purpose apart from the relationship itself. If she succeeds in defining, through discussion and communication, what sort of intimate relationship she and her partners want to maintain and what accomplishment or purpose they hope to achieve, many conflicts will be avoided.

Anne Wilson is something of a social butterfly. Although she claims to be looking for a soulmate, it is tough for her to remain interested in any one partner for very long. She enjoys the mental stimulation of bubbly, worldly relationships with a variety of people. If she allows herself to become aware of the scope of her frustration, she might understand that her pleasure-seeking attitude is merely a flight from her true self.