Antonio Valencia if you really want to improve and transform yourself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution: your pride and short temper, your insatiable need for praise, your need to dominate, your struggle to tolerate criticism

You sometimes struggle with the conflict between your desire to achieve social and professional success, and your need for a stable, secure domestic life. You are deeply committed to both ideas and find it difficult to reconcile their demands on you. Sometimes it feels as though you will never be able to find a balance. However, no promotion will really satisfy you if you neglect your most intimate needs and desires. Although it sometimes seems easier to you to climb the ladders of the career world out there in the real world, if you simply sacrifice your domestic life, you are only fooling yourself. You should accept that your domestic life is the true foundation and basis of your development, and all your career endeavors will be even more rewarding if they are supported by a safe, warm personal life.

Antonio Valencia has the ability to detach himself from his emotions to analyze and observe them, which sometimes prevents him from truly engaging himself in emotional terms. He subjects all his feelings to an intellectual interpretation rather than yielding to them. This is the reason why he might falter, hesitate, contradict himself and seem to say both yes and no when he has an opportunity to commit himself emotionally. He should make a conscious effort to overcome this unconscious conditioning which may be related to his childhood. He must first learn to observe and assimilate other people’s feelings instead of rejecting them. This exercise will teach him to understand his own reactions and affects better.