If you want to improve your life, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution. These might be your dependency on other people, your uncertainty, your sentimentalism, or your weakness for comfort.

Aphmau may experience discord in relationships. Although she is friendly and outgoing and commits herself to friendships and partnerships, she often finds it difficult to balance her own needs, desires, and goals with the objective reality of others and their individual desires and needs. To understand and overcome this problem, she should accept the idea that every relationship follows more or less the same general scheme: a base of intimacy and an accomplishment or purpose apart from the relationship itself. If she succeeds in defining, through discussion and communication, what kind of intimate relationship she and her partners want to maintain and what accomplishment or purpose they hope to achieve, many conflicts will be avoided.

Aphmau has a quick mind, making quick decisions without knowing all the facts. This can lead to communications problems and opposition in others. However, this quick mind is also useful in quickly changing work situations, where last-minute decisions need to be made.

Aphmau, healthy emotional development will require a conscious adaptation because you are still the captive of sensations which have never been clarified, and, as a result, your sensitivity cannot really blossom fully. Although you seek close relationships and intimacy with people you trust to give you love and support, you sometimes feel alienated from other people and may withdraw into a remote bubble. Were you to open yourself fully to the world of relations with others, by the means of continual, subtle changes, you could prepare yourself for a total metamorphosis of your destiny. Both your sensitivity and your relationships would have access to a new path, more altruistic, open, and dedicated to others.