If you really want to improve and transform yourself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution: your need to bluff, your inability to manage certain things, your instability, and your unwillingness to change certain opinions.

Although you are friendly and outgoing and commit yourself to friendships and partnerships, you often find it difficult to balance your own needs, desires, and goals with the objective reality of others and their individual desires and needs. To understand and overcome this problem, you should accept the idea that every relationship follows more or less the same general scheme: A base of intimacy and an accomplishment or purpose apart from the relationship itself. If you succeed in defining, through discussion and communication, what sort of intimate relationship you and your partners want to maintain and what accomplishment or purpose they hope to achieve, many conflicts will be avoided.

Arden Myrin tends to be rigid in relationships. In some extreme cases, she may be jealous. Because she has a great deal of emotional impact on the other, she sometimes feels invulnerable to any outside influence and will struggle with reexamining her own attitude.