If you want to improve yourself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution. These could be your overweening ego, your need to show off, your aggressiveness, or your excesses.

You sometimes sense a conflict between your desire for social and professional success and your need for a stable, secure domestic life. You are deeply committed to both ideas and do not always succeed in reconciling their schedules and demands on you. Sometimes it feels as though you will never be able to find a balance. However, no job promotion will really satisfy you if you have neglected your most intimate needs and desires. Although it sometimes seems easier to you to climb the rungs of the career ladder out there in the real world, if you merely sacrifice your domestic life, you are only trying to fool yourself. You should accept the fact that your domestic life is the true basis and foundation of your development. All your career endeavors and success will be even more rewarding if they are supported by a safe, warm personal life.

You are endowed with great sensitivity and have profound aspirations, especially romantic ones. Nevertheless, your spirit is sometimes too delicate for you to have armored and structured yourself for the constraints of life out there in the real world. Moreover, you see little point in devoting yourself to fulfilling the demands of practical reality, which strike you as rather futile and empty. Your escapes into your fantasy world give you the illusion of a much greater reward. You tend to gloss over your vision of other people, and when they reveal their imperfections and incompetence, you feel guilty for them and suffer from your own vulnerability and illusions. You would do well to try to be more selective about the people you associate with; when you are moving in a dream world, you attract the kind of dishonest people who are likely to take advantage of you.