Ashley Kelsey searches for stability in life. She wants to find a firm, unchanging structure for her life, but her efforts are often vain because she is also constantly in search of something different. Every time Ashley finds what she believes to be a good balance, she realizes that she wants something entirely different. The concepts of stability and balance are difficult to apply to life, because life is always in motion, change, and perpetual instability.
You have a strict and demanding father figure, who may have been absent physically or emotionally in your childhood. This might have left you feeling insecure, which in turn led to you developing psychological defense mechanisms in order to protect yourself. These mechanisms have now become so ingrained that they can interfere with your ability to grow and develop, particularly in situations where you feel threatened or unsupported. You are often timid and passive, and your authoritarian impulses are primarily directed towards yourself. This can make you feel guilty and discourage you from taking the initiative, which can lead to you setting difficult tasks for yourself. You should gradually build up a strong inner discipline and learn to confront life’s problems in a more detached and mature way.
Ashley Kelsey has an immense need to assert her individuality. Ashley Kelsey’s attitudes and actions are actually motivated by an unconscious desire for power. Ashley Kelsey has very little control over her energy and impulses. Ashley Kelsey sometimes injures herself bodily or starts arguments without really having meant to do so. Ashley Kelsey has a short temper and would do well to learn to control her recklessness. Ashley Kelsey is also likely to start projects which are not really appropriate to her, only to be forced to quit soon after. Before Ashley Kelsey makes any important decision, she must learn to stop and ask herself if what she is about to do is really positive for her.
Ashley Kelsey has a strong will and is mindful of efficiency when relating to others. She sometimes has trouble expressing her emotions, but she does have a lively sensitivity and is capable of lasting passion. As she grows older, Ashley Kelsey is quite likely to come into her own and acquire great intellectual and spiritual wisdom. Her honesty, integrity, and sense of duty will win her recognition and appreciation. Ashley Kelsey will move into a high career position as soon as she feels sure of her abilities.
Ashley Kelsey’s insecurities might cause her to come off as haughty and arrogant. Her vanity is easily wounded, and she abhor overt criticism.
Ashley Kelsey enjoys sharing and has a constant need for contact with other people. She tends to be free and uninhibited in her relations with other people, rarely allowing herself to be influenced by convention or prevailing opinion; she associates with whomever she pleases. This attitude makes her life refreshing and exciting, and she is never bored. In career terms, Ashley is quite gifted for any field related to communication, where her intellectual singularity and lively wit would make her an amazing hit. She would also be likely to succeed in any activity where the work required a multidisciplinary approach: teaching, advertising, politics, etc.
I have an inalienable awareness of the void and the vanity of existence. I am sometimes disoriented and deconstructed by an unknowable, unconscious force and tend to ignore or disparage the superficial pleasures and pains of daily life, preferring to dive into the depths of human experience as deeply as my intellectual, emotional, and spiritual capacities permit. Grappling with my “fundamental nature,” with the deepest and most primitive part of myself, I am sometimes aghast at the discovery of the sheer power of the life instinct and feels an imperious need to cope with it. This special consciousness I have been endowed with is somewhat beyond the bounds of conventional schools of human understanding and thought and may be a source of identity problems for me at the outset. It is not easy for me to recognize myself in any social or narcissistic models or identify with any existing roles or attitudes, so I sometimes find myself forced to construct and assert my own identity on a basis which may impress others with its intensity, if not its eccentricity.
Ashley Kelsey is a sensitive and human person. She is sociable and devoted to others, and her mother or a mother-figure had a strong influence on her psyche. Ashley still identifies with vivid childhood memories; they are the basis for her reveries, for her extreme sensitivity, and for habits which she may be slow to break. However, Ashley will thrive in the shelter of a family setting, soothed by the presence of a spouse and children. Ashley is fond of security and routine; being somewhat impressionable and anxious, she may have trouble adjusting to situations which are unfamiliar.
Ashley Kelsey has a sensitive personality. She may jump to conclusions, which could disrupt relationships, as well as career plans. She is subject to cyclical energy flows and goes from periods of feverish activity to periods of withdrawal and introspection. The aggressive element in her behavior may be explained by emotional problems she may have experienced in infancy: her mother, or a mother figure, may have had an energetic and volatile personality.
Ashley Kelsey is optimistic and happy to be alive. She is a cheerful, expansive, pleasant associate to have. She is extremely generous (sometimes to a fault!) and gives of herself and her belongings unstintingly. This positive psychological outlook is the result of a happy childhood and especially an extremely beneficial maternal influence in infancy. She is quite likely to be a professional success; her vision of the world is perfectly adapted to prevailing opinion, and her urges and desires for personal expansion usually elicit a positive reaction from society. By old age, her good reputation and prominence may have earned her fame.
Ashley Kelsey tends to limit the scope of her activities in order to maintain a sense of security. When faced with unfamiliar situations, she finds it difficult to muster the energy to engage. Ashley is more or less passive and often retreats into the past.
You are an emotional person and tend to react quickly and excessively whenever your sensitivity is touched. Although you believe that your independence, freedom, and self-sufficiency are fundamental values, you can sometimes be frustrated by your need to rely on your family or friends. Additionally, you don’t always grant the freedom of other people the same respect as your own. Certain expressions of maternal tenderness can anger you, as if you feared that it would doom you to eternal dependency. Your ambivalent behavior, full of jagged edges, can be traced back to the relationship you had with your mother or a mother figure. Although you were dependent on them, they may have rejected you. Now this attitude is extended to any situation in which your sensitivity comes into play and emotional bonds are prone to form. To avoid your feelings of dependency, you sometimes tend to become destructive. Based on denial, your reactions might be fierce, impulsive, excessive, erratic, or contradictory.
Ashley Kelsey is fairly shy, reserved, and discreet when it comes to matters of the heart. Even in intimate moments, she remains modest and doesn’t always readily express her feelings. She’s sensitive and giving, wishing to be of service to those she loves. She should trust that she deserves to be made as happy as she makes her partners.
Ashley Kelsey’s birth chart indicates that she has an emotional function that is usually expressed carefully and reasonably. Ashley tries to rid herself of all partiality and try to get some perspective and distance before making an emotional commitment.
According to the foregoing, it appears that you are torn between different tendencies in your character. An inner conflict exists between your desire to shine and your need for attachment, between your social ambitions and your longings for security, between your natural selfishness and your altruism. As a result, you are likely to become attached to a prominent person you can be proud of. Your own social position may disappoint you, but the satisfaction you derive from your loved ones or your children, should you choose to have them, will make up for your feeling you have lived vicariously.
Ashley Kelsey gets her kicks from debate and in the satisfaction of a job well done. Like her house, her relationship will be extremely well organized. No pointless bickering or small talk. She’ll prioritize sharing social success in her partnership.
You may be characterized by strong sensual and affectionate urges which drive you to seek pleasure. Your need for romantic fulfillment may compel you to marry, because you also seek the legal and social legitimacy the institution of marriage confers on an emotional bond. Indeed, the household is liable to be prosperous and even opulent, as if this offered further evidence that you had indeed achieved success. However, privately, you might be less committed to certain obligations and duties. At worst, you might deny the commitments that your optimism and expansiveness made you rush into too soon. If this were to be the case, the outward image of the couple’s success (wealth and comfort, etc.) would only be a façade which compensated for its emotional impoverishment and failure. Sooner or later, this hypocrisy might provoke a full-blown conflict. A second possibility is that a psychic incompatibility may gradually take root, pitting your romantic nature against the prerogatives of your career.
Ashley Kelsey’s intellect, which is simultaneously subjective and sensitive, acute and intuitive, always practical and deeply rooted in human experience, predisposes her to a people-oriented activity. With her memory and imagination combined with her shrewdness, she would be a gifted project manager, businesswoman, or scholar of history or literature.
Ashley Kelsey expresses her thoughts and ideas carefully. She is rather introverted and looks inside herself for the solutions to the problems she encounters in life. Because she tends to mistrust customary thought patterns, her opinion is usually highly personal.
Ashley Kelsey’s intellectual faculties and wit are sometimes slowed down because they are turned outward. Because Ashley Kelsey tends to be oriented toward others, she rarely tries to communicate with others for the simple pleasure of doing so. Indeed, Ashley Kelsey sometimes feels misunderstood. Moreover, it seems difficult for her to express the complexity of her inner perceptions.
In relations with other people, your behavior is usually kind and benevolent. You exert a certain charm, know how to speak persuasively and convincingly, and are adept at smoothing the asperities of what you have to say when it is necessary. This aspect of your personality is a great advantage to you socially; however, in situations where you must either compete or deal with direct conflict and hostility, you may be somewhat at a loss for how to behave. You have an undeniable gift for oratory which could be applied to a communications-related occupation or to artistic expression (as a stage or screen actor). Writing and dance, two other arts which associate expression and movement, might also be fields in which you would excel.
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