If you’re serious about becoming a better person, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution. These could be things like your dependency on other people, your uncertainty, your sentimentalism, and your weakness for comfort.

Asiah Azante often finds herself conflicted between her desire for social and professional success and her need for a stable, secure domestic life. She is deeply committed to both ideas, but sometimes fails to reconcile their schedules and demands on her. Sometimes it feels as though she will never be able to find a balance. However, no job promotion will really satisfy her if she neglects her most intimate needs and desires. Although it sometimes seems easier to her to climb the rungs of the career ladder out there in the real world, if she merely sacrifices her domestic life, she is only trying to fool herself. She should accept the fact that her domestic life is the true basis and foundation of her development. All her career endeavors and success will be even more rewarding if they are supported by a safe, warm personal life.

Asiah Azante struggles with setting realistic goals and with organizing her emotional relationships. She idealizes the potential partner in the beginning, but then tries to dodge her commitment and frantically plots to extricate herself. In other life pursuits, Asiah tends to rush into activities, of which she has only a crude, confused concept. Life steps in to urge her to slow down and induce her to organize herself with more patience and forethought.