ASMR Glow, if you truly want to improve and transform yourself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution. Your preference for illusion, hypersensitivity, emotionalism, lack of self-confidence, and guilt are all potential weaknesses which may be holding you back. If you want to improve and transform yourself, you need to become aware of these weaknesses and work to improve them.