If you want to improve and transform yourself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution. These are your preference for illusion, hypersensitivity, emotionalism, lack of self-confidence, and guilt.

Although you are friendly and outgoing and commit yourself to friendships and partnerships, you often find it difficult to balance your own needs, desires, and goals with the objective reality of others and their individual desires and needs. To understand and overcome this problem, you should accept the idea that every relationship follows more or less the same general scheme: a base of intimacy and an accomplishment or purpose apart from the relationship itself. If you succeed in defining, through discussion and communication, what sort of intimate relationship you and your partners want to maintain and what accomplishment or purpose they hope to achieve, many conflicts will be avoided.

Avaya-Bella Hugo tends to be restless and impatient. Your dissatisfaction sometimes compels you to launch yourself into an energetic effort to transform society. Because you have the ability to conceive of fairly radical models for social change, you sometimes demonstrate a desire to spearhead a progressive movement. However, your determination to impose your own ideas forcefully could turn off people you are so eager to help. You will do well to realize that only a transpersonal vision of the world (that is, a vision which transcends your own personal ego problems) is appropriate nourishment for the archetypes which could bring about a real transformation and improvement of social structures.