Averagejonas tries to stay grounded, but due to their unconscious feelings of insecurity, they are a serious individual who tries to stay grounded. Their ambitions are strong, and they will always be seeking a higher social position. Sometimes, they adopt a strategy of solitude and introversion.
Averagejonas has a paternal complex, which means that they have trouble finding their identity. This problem can be traced back to when their father or a father figure was absent. This lack of support caused Averagejonas to have to protect themselves from negative influences. They also learned how to deal with difficult situations by finding their own system. However, this system has now settled into a groove, which is preventing Averagejonas from growing and developing. They use psychological defense mechanisms and crutches, which were once helpful, but now they are getting in their way. As a result, Averagejonas is often an awkward or passive observer. They also feel guilty about their behavior because they judge themselves severely. They should gradually build up a strong inner discipline and acquire the strength to deal with problems in a detached and mature way.
Averagejonas enjoys sharing and always needs contact with others. They are free and uninhibited in their relations with others, rarely allowing themselves to be influenced by convention or prevailing opinion; they associate with whomever they please. This attitude makes their life refreshing and exciting, and they are never bored. In career terms, Averagejonas is quite gifted for any field related to communication, where their intellectual singularity and lively wit would make them an amazing hit. They would also be likely to succeed in any activity where the work required a multidisciplinary approach: teaching, advertising, politics, etc.
Averagejonas is lively and expressive, with a personality that is sometimes agitated but straightforward. Unconscious feelings of insecurity compel Averagejonas to act and sometimes to seek the admiration of others. As a result, Averagejonas is unable to bear idleness and routine, and Averagejonas is in search of perpetual excitement. Averagejonas’ reactions to others are highly individual and depend on the mood Averagejonas is in at any given moment. A person of decision, an athlete or a businessperson, Averagejonas often personifies boldness and impetuosity. Averagejonas’ love life is liable to be fiery, as it obeys the imperatives of Averagejonas’ desire for freedom and independence, and Averagejonas’ need for change.
The Averagejonas has a sensitive personality. They may jump to conclusions, which could disrupt relationships, as well as career plans. They are subject to cyclical energy flows and go from periods of feverish activity to periods of withdrawal and introspection. The aggressive element in their behavior may be explained by emotional problems they may have experienced in infancy: their mother, or a mother figure, may have had an energetic and volatile personality.
Averagejonas has a difficult time separating the person he perceives himself to be, from the person that his parents projected onto him. This can lead to melancholy spells where he doesn’t feel worthy of being loved, and he often prohibits himself from emotional fulfillment. The experience that caused this behavior in Averagejonas as a child may be difficult to reconcile with the image he has of himself as an adult. However, Averagejonas has the ability to overcome his mistakes and achieve his goals. He should not repress his sensitivity in order to do so.
Averagejonas has a nagging feeling of insecurity which affects his psychology and dampens his natural enthusiasm. His need to take action and assert himself is sometimes disturbed by this gnawing fear.
Averagejonas finds it difficult to differentiate between dreams and reality, as the abundance of imagination within him provides a rich supply of inspiration for both creative and spiritual evolution, but can also be less helpful and positive when it comes to matters of self-assertion and self-sufficiency within relationships. In particular, Averagejonas is very romantic and often sees others in a way that is not entirely accurate.
Averagejonas’ sensitivity and emotions are sometimes in conflict with their instincts. This inner discord makes them a fairly complicated relationship partner, and their behavior sometimes strikes others as mysterious or baffling. They are liable to switch from one attitude to the opposite. Sexuality is an important part of their life, and their relationships are most often motivated by their desires. Nevertheless, due to their unconscious inner battle, they do not often succeed in reconciling and fulfilling their emotional and sexual needs. Due to the strength of their instincts, passion may overwhelm them and drag them into situations they cannot always control, which intermingle erotic ecstasy and anguish, guilt, and aggressiveness.
Averagejonas tries to express their affections in the most graceful and harmonious way possible. Indeed, they have an innate sense of harmony and strive for a love relationship characterized by balance and perfection. They tend to idealize both their partner and the institution of marriage. Any disillusionment they encounter in the pursuit of their ideal may be experienced as a frustration. They do not always ply their powers of seduction skillfully.
Averagejonas’s birth chart indicates an emotional function which is usually expressed carefully and reasonably. Distrustful of his emotional urges and somewhat wary of his feelings, he tries to rid himself of all partiality and try to get some perspective and distance before making an emotional commitment.
Averagejonas is ambitious and energetic. It has a gift for attracting attention and is regal in bearing. It enjoys the social whirl and is talented at hosting. In a relationship, it is loyal and forthright. It aims for perfect harmony of feeling and is prepared to support its partner fully. If its partner disappoints it, it will make them feel like a wretch for disillusioning it.
Averagejonas has high hopes for a second marriage and their capacity for love could be eroded if they connect with someone who is more interested in their own affairs than in ensuring the happiness of their relationship. In this situation, their charm means that they will never be short of a shoulder to cry on.
Averagejonas may be characterized by strong sensual and affectionate urges which drive them to seek pleasure. Their need for romantic fulfillment may compel them to marry, because they also seek the legal and social legitimacy the institution of marriage confers on an emotional bond. Indeed, the household is liable to be prosperous and even opulent, as if this offered further evidence that they had indeed achieved success. However, privately, they might be less committed to certain obligations and duties. At worst, they might deny the commitments that their optimism and expansiveness made them rush into too soon. If this were to be the case, the outward image of the couple’s success (wealth and comfort, etc.) would only be a façade which compensated for its emotional impoverishment and failure. Sooner or later, this hypocrisy might provoke a full-blown conflict. A second possibility is that a psychic incompatibility may gradually take root, pitting their romantic nature against the prerogatives of their career.
Averagejonas is hypersensitive and tends to relive the anxieties, apprehensions, and romantic absolutes of their first love relationships, which occurred around the ages of 13-14 years or 20-21 years. They are exquisitely sensitive, but almost completely barricaded behind a layer of aloofness. They will not settle for anything less than eternal commitment, total harmony, and absolute loyalty. They are sometimes presumed to be cold, even by those close to them. They usually hide their emotional reactions or do not even allow them to reach the level of their consciousness, in order to protect their sensitivity, which they see as their weak point. They are fairly vulnerable, even in the intimacy of a stable and established relationship. Usually, they will disguise their strong feelings as a kind of possessiveness or even jealousy. Certain misfortunes may arouse a negative emotional state inside them, and they feel unworthy of the love which is lavished on them. This psychological prohibition which rules over all of their desires and affects should loosen with the passage of time; likewise, their fear of approaching the other will diminish. As a result, the second part of their romantic life will be more rewarding. In any case, if you want to experience a harmonious love relationship and gratify yourself emotionally, the defense mechanisms you have elaborated to make yourself inaccessible to others will have to be dismantled. Any profound relationship will also require that you learn how to forget yourself occasionally in the other.
Averagejonas has an ardent and amorous character, and their relationships are enlivened by intensity and passion. A charmer perpetually engaged in a quest for the ideal love, they are often more in love with the idea of love than with a partner. As a result, their love life may be subject to some instability. They are generally attracted to original people who defy norms, standards, and classifications, and expect them to amaze and fascinate them. Their greatest contradictions surface when an intimate relationship is established. Although they merge their ego entirely into the couple, they are likely to demand a total autonomy and liberty which are inimical to intimacy. If their partner charms and captivates them long enough, there is some possibility that they will form a more solid bond with them; otherwise, they are likely to yield to their need for novelty and fall under the spell of an entirely different person who exerts a new kind of charm for them. Midlife may be a turning point for them from this point of view. Their contradictory attitude may in some ways hide a compulsion to reject and deny the bonds of dependency inherent to a love relationship. Their behavior enables them to remain aloof, to commit themselves only halfway without consciously admitting it to themselves, and to avoid feeling guilty if and when they lose interest. An insatiable appetite for novelty and exaltation sometimes keeps them from forming stable relationships. Indeed, they are tormented by the struggle between their undeniable need for affection and an equally imperious desire for personal progress and emancipation. As a result of this inner turmoil, their romantic aspirations are usually sabotaged sooner or later by their conviction that their partner has become an obstacle to their individual progress. Because they think of love as a restraint, they may even eventually consciously refuse any emotional approach to love interests. However, they are also likely to meet “the one” who inspires them to initiate a change in their behavior.
Averagejonas has a fairly skeptical temperament which relies on remarkable analytic and critical faculties. They are sensitive and curious, a keen observer of facts who collects detailed information they will later pore over and analyze. This type of logical, rational mind is extremely efficient for elaborating methods or sorting and classifying information. However, it sometimes lacks flexibility or broad-mindedness.
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