If you really want to improve and transform yourself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution: Avery Singer’s insatiable appetites, her stubbornness, her grimness, and her reluctance to change.

Avery Singer sometimes experiences a conflict between her desire to have a successful social and professional life, and her need for a stable, secure domestic life. She is deeply committed to both ideas, but sometimes struggles to reconcile their schedules and demands on her. Sometimes it feels as though she will never be able to find a balance. However, no job promotion will really satisfy her if she neglects her most intimate needs and desires. Although it sometimes seems easier to her to climb the rungs of the career ladder out there in the real world, if she sacrifices her domestic life, she is only trying to fool herself. She should accept the fact that her domestic life is the true foundation and basis of her development. All her career endeavors and success will be even more rewarding if they are supported by a safe, warm personal life.

Avery Singer may find themselves feeling frustration and insecurity in their relations with other people, or in matters related to communication, until they find the right direction for themselves. They are fairly skeptical and sometimes overly rational, so they do not always trust in the power of their own imagination and emotions, and they are even more wary of other people’s imagination and emotions. Their approach is sometimes hindered by pessimism, and people may find them cynical. They would do well to learn to be more generous with themselves in their intimate and social relationships instead of immediately snuffing out other people’s spontaneous expressions of hope and goodwill.