Badass Grandmom is ready to make some sacrifices in order to maintain and consolidate the structure she has chosen. True inner security, based on real knowledge of herself, her abilities, and her shortcomings, her strengths and her weaknesses would no doubt be most effective and would allow her to remain open to the varieties of experience offered by the world.

You were born into a family of strong and influential individuals. As a result of your heritage, you were born with a strong sense of responsibility and a paternal complex. You might have lacked a particular sense of security which could be provided by a paternal presence, as well as the examples of behavior to follow in confronting the difficulties inherent in every life. Because you were forced to protect yourself against negative influences and find your own system in order to grow and feel secure, you were able to grow and develop into a strong and confident individual. However, your system has now settled into a groove which inhibits your ability to grow and develop. You use psychological defense mechanisms to protect yourself, but they also become a barrier to your growth. As a result, you are often uncomfortable asserting yourself and are a passive observer in most situations. You judge yourself harshly and sometimes punish yourself by setting difficult tasks for yourself. Over time, you will need to build up a strong inner discipline and acquire the strength to face the problems of existence in a detached and mature way.

Badass Grandmom has a sensitive personality and behavior which can be disrupted by a contradiction between the masculine and feminine archetypes ruling her psyche. Because her sensitivity is in conflict with her determination, her attitude and performance may sometimes be moody, fluctuating, and uncertain. Usually, Badass Grandmom has the feeling she has to make superhuman efforts to succeed in assuaging her yearnings and fulfilling her ambitions. Her unconscious, sensitive side often disapproves of her conscious endeavors and stealthily works to defeat them, causing crucial omissions, mistakes, and gaps which effectively sabotage her plans. In her relationships, Badass Grandmom builds up and projects on the other images are contradictory. As a result, any bond, even if it is pleasant and positive, might also annoy her. Badass Grandmom could find it dissatisfying and irritating at the same time.

Badass Grandmom enjoys sharing and has a constant need for contact with other people. She tends to be free and uninhibited in her relations with other people, rarely allowing herself to be influenced by convention or prevailing opinion; she associates with whomever she pleases. This attitude makes her life refreshing and exciting, and she is never bored. In career terms, she is quite gifted for any field related to communication, where her intellectual singularity and lively wit would make her an amazing hit. She would also be likely to succeed in any activity where the work required a multidisciplinary approach: teaching, advertising, politics, etc.

Badass Grandmom is a visionary and an outliner, but her energy is not always sufficient to follow through on her many dreams. She lives in osmosis with her environment, and effort and action take a heavy toll on her. She usually understands phenomena and events intuitively, without really making any effort; so she is not in the habit of disciplining or shaping her thought processes. Like her thoughts, her personality is rather amorphous and disorganized. As a result, she may have some trouble asserting her individuality and making some personal contribution to society through her career. Her tendency to shut out reality and dream impossible dreams may be a source of some difficulty for her.

You are a badass grandmom who is aware of the void and the vanity of existence. You sometimes feel disoriented and deconstructed and don’t pay attention to the superficial pleasures and pains of daily life. You find it harder than others to recognize yourself in any social or narcissistic models, or identify with any existing roles or attitudes. You have to assert and express your own identity in a way which may strike your contemporaries as oddly intense or eccentric.

Because you are a methodical person, you usually prefer to do things according to a pre-established plan. Your behavior mirrors this tendency. You will adopt relatively strict models elaborated on the basis of logical or moral reasons. You do not readily express your personal feelings or emotions and may sometimes strike others as a rigid person. However, your conscientiousness and application make you thrive in a work environment, and you tend to treat social engagements and activities as a form of duty. Your natural taste for clarity, detail, and technique would make you successful as a scientific researcher or high-tech designer.

Badass Grandmom is rigid, might struggle to make friends easily, and is sometimes wary of relations with those she is most attracted to. She is a gifted worrywart.

You are a strong and independent person, but your sensitivity can get the best of you. When you feel emotionally connected to someone, you react quickly and impulsively, sometimes doing things that you later regret. This vulnerability is something that you feel is essential to your independence, but it can be frustrating to rely on others. You also don’t always grant other people the same level of freedom that you demand from yourself. This can lead to angry outbursts and a tendency to act impulsively. Your behavior is often shaped by the relationship you had with your mother or a mother figure. If they were critical and rejecting of you, you may have developed a pattern of denying your emotions and reacting in a way that is destructive. By using denial, you can distance yourself from your feelings and act in a way that is stronger and more independent.

Badass Grandmom is sensitive and compassionate, sacrificing her own interests for those of her partners. She is romantic and idealistic, but can be confused and evasive with regards to her feelings. She is capable of devoting herself entirely to the people she loves. Badass Grandmom has a tendency to daydream and become lost in herself.

Badass Grandmom has an emotional function that is usually expressed carefully and reasonably. She distrusts her emotional urges and somewhat wary of her feelings, so she tries to rid herself of all partiality and try to get some perspective and distance before making an emotional commitment.

Badass Grandmom has always been a romantic and idealistic person, and is modest and inhibited when it comes to showing her true self. Reality is less rosy, and she often finds herself living vicariously through her imagination. She is aware that in order to have a successful relationship, she must become aware of her own energy and learn to invest it positively or negatively. In love and in life, Badass Grandmom will reap what she has sown.

Badass Grandmom takes pleasure in a kind of self-denial or self-sacrifice that occasionally borders on masochism. But she knows that before she can be loved by someone else, she’s got to learn to love herself. Only a relationship based on mutual respect and esteem can bring her the emotional fulfillment she seeks. A second marriage or relationship with an older partner should help her to restore the balance that was largely lost in her early relationships.

You may be characterized by strong sensual and affectionate urges which drive you to seek pleasure. Your need for romantic fulfillment may compel you to marry, because you also seek the legal and social legitimacy the institution of marriage confers on an emotional bond. Indeed, the household is liable to be prosperous and even opulent, as if this offered further evidence that you had indeed achieved success. However, privately, you might be less committed to certain obligations and duties. At worst, you might deny the commitments that your optimism and expansiveness made you rush into too soon. If this were to be the case, the outward image of the couple’s success (wealth and comfort, etc.) would only be a façade which compensated for its emotional impoverishment and failure. Sooner or later, this hypocrisy might provoke a full-blown conflict. A second possibility is that a psychic incompatibility may gradually take root, pitting your romantic nature against the prerogatives of your career.

A badass grandmom thinks about the input from her subjectivity and emotions as dynamic and tries to tune them out to go straight to the essence of knowledge. As a result, regardless of her field of study, she tries to obtain perspective. She will elaborate a thought based on fairly cold, abstract logic, supported by sober, concise, and immaculate reasoning. Her choice areas of study could be mathematics, philosophy, legislation, or political science. Ideologies, theories, and any other system of reasoning could serve as “food for thought” for her.

Badass Grandmom listens attentively to others, taking in their words and expressions before offering her own insights or thoughts. She is introverted, preferring to mull things over in her own head before speaking. A pacifist by nature, she is motivated by the desire to help others and protect them.

Badass Grandmom has a lively and agile spirit. She is curious and open-minded, approaching various life experiences without either dogmatism or prejudice. As a result of the liveliness of her mind, she tends to have an opinion on every subject, but she does not always have the patience or perspective necessary to examine a subject and gain in-depth knowledge of it. She enjoys manipulating expressions and concepts and amuses herself with witty remarks, satire, and controversy. If she learned to control her flow of words better and elaborate her thoughts more, she might make a talented communicator. Because she is often too hasty to formulate and construct the arguments which would back up and inform her ideas, she is sometimes misunderstood. She is often blind to the rashness of her judgments and convinced they are well-founded and objective, which sometimes irritates the people around her. If she were to succeed in disciplining her mind somewhat, she would have innumerable opportunities to apply her communications skills to a great career. However, she would do well to be careful of her nerves.