Ben Hardy is a serious, steadfast individual who tries to stay grounded. His ambitions are strong, and he will always be seeking a higher social position. He sometimes adopts a strategy of solitude and introversion.
Ben Hardy is a reluctant and unwilling member of society. He often finds it hard to adapt to the demands of social life and makes mistakes when he is new to a project. His financial difficulties may clear up when his emotional ones do.
Ben Hardy is a free thinker and individualist who is convinced that his most precious basic values are freedom and independence. He has thrown off what he perceas the burden of the convention and customs of his social class and adopted an innovative lifestyle. His passionate convictions, bordering on proselytism, sometimes trouble his relationships, as he may be an uncompromising partner. He should learn to recognize his own limitations and accept the responsibilities he has to other people, or he is liable to find himself continually embroiled in conflicting relationships.
Ben Hardy is a sensitive and receptive person who lives in osmosis with their surroundings. They are often difficult to communicate with other people because their individuality is constantly being diluted in a flood of sensations and impressions. This tide of emotion is a source of inspiration and intuition, but it is difficult for Ben to grasp the essence of their dreams and share them with other people. Ben is not combative, which hinders their efforts to fit into society and assert themselves productively. Ben’s tendency to prefer fantasy to reality and their refusal to abandon their unattainable dreams is a psychological trap they have fallen into without realizing it. Ben must understand that by escaping from their obligations and commitments, they only increase the feelings of guilt and incompetence which made reality so distasteful in the first place. Once Ben frees themselves from this pernicious process, they have a great deal of potential for fulfilling themselves in the outer world, either by devoting themselves to the community or by cultivating their considerable artistic talents.
A charismatic speaker and compulsive charmer, Ben Hardy has a powerful personal magnetism which may sometimes make him seem arrogant or smug. He cares a great deal about his reputation and will try hard to be admired and appreciated by the people around him. Fond of social events and parties, Ben likes to be the host, to entertain and charm a captive audience of guests. Indeed, Ben has special dramatic and artistic talents of the caliber necessary for success in film, theater, fashion, or art in general. He enjoys displaying his generosity, but he also displays a short temper at times; he is easily offended. His partner will have to be a brilliant person, strong and sure of themselves, devoted to Ben and capable of enhancing his reputation.
Ben Hardy is an optimistic and happy individual who is a cheerful, communicative, and pleasant associate to have. His expansive nature is related to his gratification in childhood, which probably occurred in favorable surroundings with a mother or mother figure who was loving, indulgent, and generous. Ben is extremely kind-hearted himself and gives of himself and his wealth unstintingly. His bountifulness, which many people appreciate somewhat selfishly, may arise from a confusion between his desires and reality.
Ben Hardy is sometimes afraid to love. The world of his feelings is characterized by a certain chill and restraint. But he is not unfeeling; on the contrary, his sensitivity is so delicate that he is careful to protect it. His determination to maintain control of his feelings and force his emotions to obey the laws of reason may stand in the way of intimacy and joy.
Ben Hardy’s birth chart indicates that he has an emotional function which is usually expressed carefully and reasonably. Ben distrusts his emotional urges and somewhat wary of his feelings, so he tries to rid himself of all partiality and get some perspective and distance before making an emotional commitment.
Ben Hardy needs to feel indispensable and even to dominate. Social prestige matters a great deal to him and will influence his choice of a lover. He will identify with his partner’s career and strive for his family’s success. Due to his seriousness and overweening ambition, his home may be a tense place. He may also try to compensate for his frustration with his own success.
Ben Hardy gets married to a woman he respects, works with, and has interests in common with. Although it may not be an especially affectionate marriage at first, a profound and enduring love should develop over time.
Ben Hardy has the fiery, importunate nature of a fervent lover. Indeed, affairs of the heart are one of his main purposes in life. His personal charm and magnetism give him nearly irresistible powers of seduction, and nearly every one of his well-aimed attempts at conquest leads to the fulfillment and satisfaction of his desires. Due to his impulsiveness and impatience to initiate new encounters, his approach to potential partners may sometimes lack delicacy.
Ben Hardy, you are hypersensitive and tend to relive the anxieties, apprehensions, and romantic absolutes of your first love relationships, which occurred around the ages of 13-14 years or 20-21 years. You are exquisitely sensitive, but almost completely barricaded behind a layer of aloofness. You will not settle for anything less than eternal commitment, total harmony, and absolute loyalty. You are sometimes presumed to be cold, even by those close to you. You usually hide your emotional reactions or do not even allow them to reach the level of your consciousness, in an effort to protect your sensitivity, which you see as your weak point. You are fairly vulnerable, even in the intimacy of a stable and established relationship. Usually, you will disguise your strong feelings as a kind of possessiveness or even jealousy. Certain misfortunes may arouse a negative emotional state inside you, and you feel unworthy of the love which is lavished on you. This psychological prohibition which rules over all of your desires and affects should loosen with the passage of time; likewise, your fear of approaching the other will diminish. As a result, the second part of your romantic life will be more rewarding. In any case, if you want to experience a harmonious love relationship and gratify yourself emotionally, the defense mechanisms you have elaborated to make yourself inaccessible to others will have to be dismantled.
Ben Hardy is attracted to wide open spaces and distant horizons; as a scholar, he feels an affinity for higher studies such as philosophy or law. However, foreign languages or contacts abroad might also interest him.
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