Big 30 is patient. They are fond of routine, ritual, and any other events or ceremonies which mark the passage of time and the seasons. They try to be as pragmatic as possible and unconsciously senses that their relationship with material things will be the best foundation for their self-development and individuation. As a result, they are attached to their possessions and will make every effort to cling to them.

You are a difficult person to know. You have a paternal complex, which means that you take care of others a lot. This can be a good thing, but it can also be a problem. Because you were not raised with a father figure, you don’t have the pattern of behavior that is usually helpful in structuring a personality. This means that you have to find your own system to grow and feel secure. However, your system has become so strong that it interferes with your ability to grow and develop. This is why you are difficult to know. You have a lot of psychological defense mechanisms and crutches, which were once useful but now impede your development. As a result, you sometimes struggle to assert yourself and you tend to be an awkward or passive observer. You also judge yourself harshly and often punish yourself by setting difficult tasks for yourself. Slowly, you should build up a strong inner discipline and learn to deal with problems in a detached and mature way.

Some people have a personality that is liable to be disrupted by a contradiction between the masculine and feminine archetypes ruling their psyche. Because your sensitivity is in conflict with your determination, your attitude and performance may be moody, fluctuating, and uncertain. Usually, you have the feeling you have to make superhuman efforts to succeed in assuaging your yearnings and fulfilling your ambitions. However, your unconscious, sensitive side often disapproves of your conscious endeavors and stealthily works to defeat them, causing crucial omissions, mistakes, and gaps which effectively sabotage your plans. In your relationships, the images you build up and projects on the other are contradictory. As a result, any bond, even if it is pleasant and positive, also grates on your nerves. You find it dissatisfying and irritating at the same time.

Big 30 is a very ambitious and determined person. He is mindful of his goals and goes about achieving them with efficiency and precision. When it comes to relating to others, he sometimes struggles to express his emotions, but he has a lively sensitivity and a capacity for lasting passion. As he grows older, Big 30 is likely to come into his own and develop great intellectual and spiritual wisdom. His honesty, integrity, and sense of duty will win him recognition and appreciation from others. Time will be a very important factor in his destiny, and his greatest accomplishments will ensure him stability and prosperity. Although Big 30 is not particularly enterprising, he will eventually move into a high-profile career position.

Big 30 prefers to do things in a systematic way, following a plan that is based on logical or moral reasons. They are not very expressive with their personal feelings or emotions, but can be very conscientious when it comes to their work. They are suited for a career in science or technology, where they are good at coming up with clear plans and details.

The Big 30 has a lively, agile, and sensitive intellect. However, it doesn’t always avail itself of it and may be confused or irrational in some situations. Although it enjoys playing with words, ideas, and concepts, its thought sometimes lacks discipline and structure. It is fairly preoccupied with details and may tend to waste its nervous and mental energy in vain verbal outpourings. Additionally, its feelings sometimes blur its objective vision of phenomena and people, which may cause it to make errors in judgment.

Big 30 has a sensitive and affectionate nature. He seeks tenderness and gentleness more than passion. His relationships with others are smooth and pleasant, and he has a natural sense of tact and social grace.

Big 30 has a sensitive personality. They may jump to conclusions, which could disrupt relationships, as well as career plans. They are subject to cyclical energy flows and go from periods of feverish activity to periods of withdrawal and introspection. The aggressive element in their behavior may be explained by emotional problems they may have experienced in infancy: their mother, or a mother figure, may have had an energetic and volatile personality.

You are an affable and communicative associate who is generous almost to a fault. Paradoxically, there are times when you are self-focused and react instinctively, without taking the trouble to analyze a given situation. As a result, your everyday life may be riddled with a whole variety of practical problems. Indeed, you sense a conflict between your social life and your family, and will sometimes find it hard to fulfill yourself in both spheres at the same time. Your attitude toward your private life may inhibit your ambitions for social or career expansion; at worst, society (the law) may impinge on your private life. You should be careful not to project your personal problems onto your partner. If, instead, the two of you analyzed the problem, you might be able to find opportunities to resolve it together.

Big 30,
Your sensitivity and irrepressible imagination can sometimes get in the way of your ability to distinguish dreams from reality. Although your imagination can be an abundant source of inspiration for creative or spiritual evolution, it can sometimes be less helpful and positive in matters that concern earning a decent living out in the real world. In a relationship, you are extremely romantic and often see others the way they really are. You have elegant tastes and art and beauty are one of your chief pleasures in life.

The attractions of the Big 30 are usually intense and immediate. They rise quickly to a fever pitch. The story of these passions is often dramatic to excess, combining all the plot elements of a classic love tragedy: jealousy, possessiveness, agony as an erotic stimulant, etc.

The birth chart indicates that the emotional function is expressed in a direct and fairly impulsive way. The individual enjoys reaching out to others and making discoveries. An eternal teenager with their gaze riveted on the future, they are imbued with an eminently subjective and personal idealism.

Big 30,
You don’t seem to be centered on your emotional life. Nevertheless, you will be an exemplary and competent partner, loyal and devoted, as soon as you find the right person to commit to.

Big 30 exerts an odd and somewhat mysterious power of attraction. But it is irresistibly lured to partners who break its heart, and it seems almost to have an affinity for tormented but intense relationships. In a rage of disappointment, Big 30 is likely to go from total love to total indifference. It is especially attracted to possessive and complex people.

You are an ardent lover, drawn to affairs of the heart. Your personal charm and magnetism are compellingly seductive, but your attempts at conquest don’t always result in the fulfillment and satisfaction of your desires. This can be due to your impulsiveness and impatience, which can hurt your relationships. Your emotional behavior is subject to a conflict between your quest for love and your need to satisfy your lust. Your outpourings of affection and your need to be loved can create complicated situations in which lust is confused with love, or love exists without lust, and you may feel unfulfilled. This inner contradiction is a sign of your tendency to derive pleasure from suffering – either your own or that of your partner. The relationship becomes the setting for a kind of power struggle, weakening it as a source of psychological equilibrium. Nevertheless, you could sublimate this difficulty through artistic expression.

You are characterized by strong sensual and affectionate urges which drive you to seek pleasure. Your need for romantic fulfillment may compel you to marry, because you also seek the legal and social legitimacy the institution of marriage confers on an emotional bond. Indeed, the household is liable to be prosperous and even opulent, as if this offered further evidence that you had indeed achieved success. However, privately, you might be less committed to certain obligations and duties. At worst, you might deny the commitments that your optimism and expansiveness made you rush into too soon. If this were to be the case, the outward image of the couple’s success (wealth and comfort, etc.) would only be a façade which compensated for its emotional impoverishment and failure. Sooner or later, this hypocrisy might provoke a full-blown conflict. A second possibility is that a psychic incompatibility may gradually take root, pitting your romantic nature against the prerogatives of your career.

Big 30 feels attracted to wide open spaces and distant horizons; as a scholar, he feels an affinity for higher studies such as philosophy or law. However, foreign languages or contacts abroad might also interest him.

The Big 30 listens attentively to what you have to say. It is clear that you are highly expressive and enjoy sharing your thoughts and ideas. You are relatively extroverted and thirst for new experiences. You are optimistic and look forward to the future, but can be reckless at times.

You have a lively and agile spirit. You are curious and open-minded, approaching various life experiences with an attitude free of dogmatism and prejudice. As a result of your great mental vitality, you tend to have an opinion on every subject, but you do not always have the patience necessary to examine a subject in-depth. You enjoy manipulating expressions and concepts and amuse yourself with witty remarks, satire, and controversy. If you learned to control your flow of words and elaborate your thoughts more, you could make a talented communicator. Because you are often too hasty to formulate and construct the arguments which would back up and inform your ideas, you are sometimes misunderstood. You are often blind to the rashness of your judgments and convinced they are well-founded and objective, which sometimes irritates the people around you. If you were to succeed in disciplining your mind somewhat, you would have innumerable opportunities to apply your communications skills to a great career. However, you would do well to be careful of your nerves.