BigFoltz is fairly individualistic and prefers to work on their own projects independently. A lack of confidence in themselves may sometimes create challenges in relationships. Their lack of self-esteem may also sometimes inhibit the full expression of their generosity and love.
You have a hard time establishing a personal identity. If your father is absent or difficult to relate to, you may have lacked the usual psychological models which would have helped structure your personality. This could lead you to develop defense mechanisms in order to protect yourself from negative influences. Although these mechanisms were useful when you were a child, they now interfere with your development. As a result, you may find it difficult to assert yourself in certain situations, and you may be a passive observer. Your authoritarian urges are mainly directed towards yourself, rather than towards others, which can sometimes make you feel guilty. You judge yourself harshly, and sometimes punish yourself by setting difficult tasks for yourself. Gradually, you should build up a strong inner discipline and acquire the strength to face the problems of existence in a detached and mature way.
BigFoltz’s personality and behavior are liable to be disrupted by a contradiction between the masculine and feminine archetypes ruling his psyche. Because his sensitivity is in conflict with his determination, his attitude and performance may be moody, fluctuating, and uncertain. Usually, he has the feeling he has to make superhuman efforts to succeed in assuaging his yearnings and fulfilling his ambitions. His unconscious, sensitive side often disapproves of his conscious endeavors and stealthily works to defeat them, causing crucial omissions, mistakes, and gaps which effectively sabotage his plans. In his relationships, the images he builds up and projects on the other are contradictory. As a result, any bond, even if it is pleasant and positive, also grates on his nerves. He finds it dissatisfying and irritating at the same time.
You are an individualist who believes deeply in the value of freedom and independence. You have chosen to live an unconventional lifestyle, and your convictions can sometimes cause tension in your relationships. You need to learn to recognize your own limitations and to ask for help when you need it, or you may find yourself struggling to maintain healthy relationships. The root of your behavior may be traced back to your relationship with your father or teachers as a child. For some reason, you may have rejected the authoritative figure of your father, or you may have chosen to rebel against traditional values. In every important decision you make as an adult, you have to rely on yourself to come up with the best course of action. You have to figure out what you want and what is best for you, and you have to be willing to put constraints on your own desires in order to achieve your goals.
You are very sensitive and receptive, and you tend to live in osmosis with your surroundings. Your individuality almost seems to be diluted in a flood of sensations and impressions which are continually washing over you, and you sometimes find it difficult to communicate your feelings to other people or engage in any structured, analytical thought. This may stem from a misunderstanding with your teachers when you were a child. Unable to understand their disciplinary measures or authority, you may have withdrawn into yourself in self-defense. It was then that you constructed your rich inner life, the part of you they could not invade, and cut many of your ties to the outside. Because you enjoyed indulging in your inner life, it may have been difficult for you to acquire an objective vision of reality. As a result, even today, you tend to create imaginary problems for yourself, regardless of the objective facts outside. Although your imagination is a source of inspiration and intuition, your fluid inner structure and organization sometimes make it difficult for you to grasp the essence of your dreams and share them with other people. You are not at all combative, and this tends to hinder your efforts to fit into society and assert yourself productively. You are likely to prefer fantasy to reality, but your refusal to abandon your unattainable dreams is a psychological trap you have fallen into without realizing it. You must understand that by running away from your obligations and commitments, you only increase the feelings of guilt and incompetence which made reality so distasteful in the first place. Once you free yourself from this pernicious process, you have a great deal of potential for fulfilling yourself in the outer world, either by devoting yourself to some sort of social work or by cultivating your considerable artistic talents.
BigFoltz generally tends to be motivated by activities which apply to social needs. It tends to give the best of itself in difficult situations which require crucial choices. Its ability to concentrate and its gift for solving problems by deductive reasoning are its chief resources in crisis situations or at turning points in its life.
Lively and expressive, you have a personality which is sometimes agitated but straightforward. Unconscious feelings of insecurity compel you to act and sometimes to seek the admiration of others. As a result, you are unable to bear idleness and routine, and you are in search of perpetual excitement. Your reactions to others are highly individual and depend on the mood you are in at any given moment. A person of decision, a businessperson or an athlete, you often personify boldness and impetuosity. Your love life is liable to be fiery, as it obeys the imperatives of your desire for freedom and independence, and your need for change.
BigFoltz has a sensitive and affectionate nature. He seeks tenderness and gentleness more than passion. His relationships with others are smooth and pleasant, and he has a natural sense of tact and social grace.
You are an expansive, affable, and communicative associate. Indeed, some people find you generous almost to a fault! You give of yourself and your resources unstintingly. Paradoxically, there are times when you are self-focused. You react instinctively, without taking the trouble to analyze a given situation, and are prone to misjudge. As a result, your everyday life may be riddled with a whole variety of practical problems. Indeed, you sense a conflict between your social life and your family and will sometimes find it hard to fulfill yourself in both spheres at the same time. Your attitude toward your private life may inhibit your ambitions for social or career expansion; at worst, society (the law) may impinge on your private life. You should be careful not to project your personal problems onto your partner. If, instead, the two of you analyzed the problem, you might be able to find opportunities to resolve it together.
BigFoltz enjoys captivating people with the elegance and ease of his expression. He is a witty and engaging flirt, an avid player of the game of love. As a result, the history of his affections is liable to be episodic, a long series of chapters about conquests or fleeting love affairs. He may carry on some love relationships by writing letters.
BigFoltz’s birth chart indicates a functional emotional expression that is expressed in a direct and fairly impulsive way. He enjoys reaching out to other people and making discoveries. An eternal teenager with his gaze riveted on the future, he is imbued with an eminently subjective and personal idealism.
BigFoltz’s psyche is constantly in conflict with the conscious, active, masculine principle and the unconscious, passive, feminine principle. This results in nervous tension, which wears him out and exhausts him. His mind and body are always feverishly active. He always tends to do too much, to become obsessed with insignificant details, or to panic when faced with the unexpected. He is likely to marry a partner who’s younger than him, either chronologically or in terms of their sense of duty. But perhaps his second marriage will be more reasonable and satisfying.
BigFoltz is often indecisive, tending to discuss rather than make decisions. This tendency to put things off may cause him to miss out on the best opportunities and end up with a rather uninspiring partner who will bring him down to their own social level.
You are an ardent lover, always looking for opportunities to express your love. Your personal charm and magnetic personality are hard to resist, but your attempts to conquer your partners can sometimes backfire. Your impulsiveness and impatience can make it difficult for you to take things slowly and build a relationship gradually. This can lead to problems in your relationships, as your emotional behavior is often in conflict with your need for love. You may feel unfulfilled or unrequited in your relationships, because you derive pleasure from suffering either your own or that of your partner. However, by using your artistic abilities, you may be able to overcome this difficulty.
BigFoltz may be characterized by strong sensual and affectionate urges which drive him to seek pleasure. His need for romantic fulfillment may compel him to marry, because he also seeks the legal and social legitimacy the institution of marriage confers on an emotional bond. Indeed, the household is liable to be prosperous and even opulent, as if this offered further evidence that he had indeed achieved success. However, privately, he might be less committed to certain obligations and duties.
You are hypersensitive and tend to relive the anxieties, apprehensions, and romantic absolutes of your first love relationships, which occurred around the ages of 13-14 years or 20-21 years. You are exquisitely sensitive, but almost completely barricaded behind a layer of aloofness. You will not settle for anything less than eternal commitment, total harmony, and absolute loyalty. You are sometimes presumed to be cold, even by those close to her. You usually hide your emotional reactions or do not even allow them to reach the level of your consciousness, in an effort to protect your sensitivity, which you see as your weak point. You are fairly vulnerable, even in the intimacy of a stable and established relationship. Usually, you will disguise your strong feelings as a kind of possessiveness or even jealousy. Certain misfortunes may arouse a negative emotional state inside you, and you feel unworthy of the love which is lavished on you. This psychological prohibition which rules over all of your desires and affects should loosen with the passage of time; likewise, your fear of approaching the other will diminish. As a result, the second part of your romantic life will be more rewarding. In any case, if you want to experience a harmonious love relationship and gratify yourself emotionally, the defense mechanisms you have elaborated to make yourself inaccessible to others will have to be dismantled. Any profound relationship will also require that you learn how to forget yourself occasionally in the other.
BigFoltz’s intellect, which is simultaneously subjective and sensitive, acute and intuitive, always practical and deeply rooted in human experience, predisposes it to a people-oriented activity. With its memory and imagination combined with its shrewdness, BigFoltz would be a gifted project manager, businesswoman, or scholar of history or literature.
BigFoltz does not express his thoughts and ideas smoothly or easily. He tends to be subjective, seeking to know himself better through a process of introversion.
BigFoltz’s intellectual faculties and wit are sometimes slowed down because they are turned outward. Because BigFoltz tends to be oriented toward others, he rarely try to communicate with others for the simple pleasure of doing so. Indeed, BigFoltz sometimes feels misunderstood. Moreover, it seems difficult to him to express the complexity of his inner perceptions.
You are fascinated by the power of words and the way they can be used to communicate and persuade others. You thrive on expressing your thoughts and feelings, and love interacting with others to get their perspective on things. You are very open-minded, which allows you to see things in a variety of ways and come up with creative solutions. Regardless of your career, you will need to be constantly learning and growing to keep up with the latest trends.
He has a great deal of intuition but sometimes has problems organizing his thought processes and making an intellectual commitment. The concepts of boundary and structure are inimical to his mind, which is open and all-encompassing, premonitory, and web-like. His thoughts may be verbally indeterminate, vague, and ill defined. He tends to understand or sense things globally, without always noticing their component parts. Usually, he can’t see the trees for the forest. In daily life, although his perceptions are lively and subtle, he may display a kind of absent-mindedness out of a fear of annoying people with his shrewdness or of fighting to assert himself. His imagination sometimes escapes from the confines of logic, cringing from a confrontation with reality. This unwillingness to face the real world may cause relationship or career challenges.
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