BigNik is patient. He is fond of routine, ritual, and any other events or ceremonies which mark the passage of time and the seasons. He tries to be as pragmatic as possible and unconsciously senses that his relationship with material things will be the best foundation for his self-development and individuation. As a result, he is attached to his possessions and will make every effort to cling to them.

You have a paternal complex, which can make it difficult for you to find your identity. You might have lacked a particular sense of security which could be provided by a paternal presence, as well as the examples of behavior to follow in confronting the difficulties inherent in every life. Because you lacked these examples, you were forced to protect yourself against negative influences and find your own system in order to grow. Although this system was quite useful to you as a child, it has now settled in to such a degree that it interferes with your evolution. Psychological defense mechanisms and crutches which were once useful now encumber your mind or inhibit your developmental efforts. As a result, in certain situations, it is difficult for you to assert yourself, and you tend to remain an awkward or passive observer. Because your authoritarian urges are mainly directed at yourself rather than others, you sometimes feel guilty about your behavior. You judge yourself severely, and sometimes punishes yourself by setting difficult tasks for yourself. Gradually, you should build up a strong inner discipline and acquire the strength to face the problems of existence in a detached and mature way.

BigNik: At the moment of your birth, the two celestial “lights” (the sun and the moon) were symmetrically aligned. This is a portent of harmony between the masculine and feminine archetypes which is extremely beneficial. It is the source of balance and understanding between the two main psychological realms which may be said to compose the personality. You thus enjoy a positive complementarity and understanding between the conscious and unconscious aspects of your psyche, between your determination and your routines, between your drive for self-assertion and your receptivity, your ideal and your sensitivity. Your parents almost certainly reflected a positive image of the marriage relationship to you, and it is likely that they encouraged you to develop your own individuality. As a result, you were and are able to be comfortable with yourself as you are instead of striving to attain your parents’ ideal. This has definitely contributed to the maintenance of a good relationship with them and the rest of the family. In your emotional relationships with your peers, one of the effects of the masculine/feminine harmony is that the images your ego projects on the other are especially constructive. The bonds of the relationship are not felt to be constraints, the energy which flows between the two people is a source of mutual happiness, not regret. No major personal conflicts are projected onto the “other” – that is, the significant other.

You often find it difficult to conform to society’s rules and conventions. The mask of sociability most people wear is hard for you to put on, and it’s hard for you to act out the roles expected of you as a normal member of the community. The usual social values and rewards, like money, respect, and prestige, only mildly interest you. Your refusal or inability to play the social game may make it hard for you to find a job, which may have negative consequences on your financial and legal status. Reluctant and unwilling to adapt to the demands of social life, you sometimes unwittingly make mistakes when a new project is in the planning stages. For example, you may leave gaps in a job application, botch up an interview with a prospective employer, or make a big mistake when bidding for a contract. But your financial difficulties may clear up when your emotional ones do.

BigNik is always on the move, in search of new contacts. Curious about all sorts of different subjects, BigNik takes care to inform himself about many things. Enjoying conversation and communication, BigNik hopes to be admired for his talent and wit. Due to BigNik having such a wide variety of interests, however, BigNik can be something of a dilettante, and his thinking may sometimes lack discipline.

BigNik’s intellect is lively, agile, and sensitive. However, it does not always avail itself of it and may be confused or irrational in some situations. Although it enjoys playing with words, ideas, and concepts, its thought sometimes lacks discipline and structure. It is fairly preoccupied with details and may tend to waste its nervous and mental energy in futile verbal outpourings. Moreover, its feelings sometimes blur its objective vision of phenomena and people, which may cause it to make errors in judgment.

BigNik maintains strong ties with their past, and it often seems difficult for them to open their heart to new people. Their love affairs might exist on the surface level, because their lust and sensual desire rarely turn into a need to understand, protect, and care for the other. Moreover, it is difficult for them to meet partners who combine the ideals of the tender parent and the great lover.

BigNik has trouble distinguishing dreams from reality because of his extreme sensitivity and irrepressible imagination. Although his imagination can be an abundant source of inspiration for creative or spiritual evolution, it tends to be less helpful and positive in matters that concern earning a decent living out in the real world. In a relationship, BigNik is extremely romantic and does not always see others the way they really are. He has elegant tastes and art and beauty are one of his chief pleasures in life.

BigNik’s sensitivity and emotions are sometimes in conflict with his instincts. This inner discord makes him a fairly complicated relationship partner, and his behavior sometimes strikes others as mysterious or baffling. He is liable to switch from one attitude to the opposite. Sexuality is an important part of his life, and his relationships are most often motivated by his desires. Nevertheless, due to his unconscious inner battle, he does not often succeed in reconciling and fulfilling his emotional and sexual needs. Due to the strength of his instincts, passion may overwhelm him and drag him into situations he cannot always control, which intermingle erotic ecstasy and anguish, guilt, and aggressiveness.

BigNik is fairly shy, reserved, and discreet when it comes to matters of the heart. Even in intimacy, BigNik remains modest and does not always readily express her feelings. She is sensitive and giving, wishing to be of service to those she loves. BigNik would do well to trust that she deserves to be made as happy as she makes her partner.

BigNik’s birth chart indicates an emotional function which is expressed in a direct and fairly impulsive way. He enjoys reaching out to other people and making discoveries. An eternal teenager with his gaze riveted on the future, he is imbued with an eminently subjective and personal idealism.

BigNik’s psyche is constantly in conflict with the conscious, active, masculine principle and the unconscious, passive, feminine principle. This tension wears him out and exhausts him, and his mind and body are always feverishly active. He is likely to marry a partner younger than he is, either chronologically or in terms of their sense of duty. But perhaps his second marriage will be more reasonable and satisfying.

BigNik falls in love with someone who is not sensual or romantic, and is more absorbed in the problems of daily life than in great sentimental adventures.

You are cautious and reserved, sometimes unwilling to open yourself to others if you are not sure of being accepted. You will always hang back somewhat from your emotional urges, parceling out your expressions of affection, because you have learned – sometimes at your expense – that even the most harmonious relationships require some compromise. For you, “good fences make good neighbors,” and well-marked boundaries can prevent future suffering. Thus, even when you are in love, you remain fairly circumspect. When you find yourself attracted to a partner, you privately engage in a careful analysis of their personality and life story, endeavoring to know them profoundly, to see whether you are likely to be able to share your life and future with them. As a result of your sensitivity, you have a profound affinity for all of the arts. Music, literature, painting, and graphic arts are likely to enrich your existence and make it pleasant. You could progress in any career in which balance, order, and practicality predominate.

From the outside, you seem to be detached and aloof, but on the inside you are an extremely complex individual, full of contradictions. Because you sometimes feel vulnerable emotionally, you try to control not only your own feelings and urges, but may also strive to manipulate those of your partners. You aspire to a profound and enduring spiritual unity, but at the same time, the idea of abandoning yourself and yielding to the other terrifies you. This anguish may be a source of rather extreme behavior patterns and a somewhat self-focused attitude which could damage the relationship. Because you are guarded and somewhat secretive, you tend to be suspicious and are especially uneasy about spontaneous intimacy, although you are fascinated by sexuality. Within the privacy of the couple, you will not express your feelings unless there is some tension. Life may be peppered with frequent crises and feuds, arguments and spats which usually act as erotic provocation. This derivation of eroticism from anxiety tends to be one of the fundamental characteristics of your emotional and sexual functioning. As a result, you are likely to be attracted by stormy and complicated relationships.

BigNik has a fairly skeptical temperament which relies on remarkable analytical and critical faculties. It is sensitive and curious, a keen observer of facts who collects detailed information and later pores over and analyzes it. This type of logical, rational mind is extremely efficient for elaborating methods or sorting and classifying information. However, it sometimes lacks flexibility or broad-mindedness.

BigNik expresses its thoughts and ideas in direct, spontaneous outbursts. It is fairly extroverted and eager to discover and understand the outer world. An idealist, it looks forward to a bright future but is sometimes subjective and reckless.

BigNik has a great ability to charm people and make them feel comfortable. This is a great advantage when it comes to social interactions, as it can make conversations much smoother. However, when BigNik has to deal with direct conflict or hostility, he may be at a loss. BigNik has a gift for orating and this could be applied to a communications-related occupation or to artistic expression through acting, writing, or dancing.

You have a brilliant mind and excellent talent for thinking deeply and accurately. However, your thought processes can be slow because of some failure or humiliation in your formative years. You are fairly inhibited and pessimistic, and you often doubt your own intelligence and abilities. However, your gifts as a thinker are real and you are on the brink of a really big breakthrough that will give you a better understanding of the complexity of things and phenomena. It will take time and effort to achieve this, but you have the ability and the mind to do it. Your mind is deep and accurate, and you are attracted to the essence of things and their fundamental structure. As a result, you are particularly suited to the study of mathematics, architecture, engineering, or perhaps even politics. Your contribution to society will be most lasting and effective in the field of knowledge and expertise. Whatever career you choose, you should learn to work alone, because you usually feel uncomfortable in some situations. You will also have to learn to conquer your impatience, because you tend to waste time agonizing over deadlines and schedules. Additionally, a lack of self-confidence could cause you to be fairly conventional and respectful of time-honored ways. Instead, you should find the courage to question your convictions.