Birdy practices controlling her emotional urges, but it is not always easy. She practices enduring strain, and has a strong foundation in patience, endurance, and stamina. She knows that a strong emotional foundation is a prerequisite for effective action.
Birdy has a great potential for creative, constructive accomplishments; however, it can be difficult for Birdy to gain access to this part of itself. Birdy is confident in itself and life but may be nonchalant. Birdy sometimes needs a little stimulation to get itself rolling and take some initiative. Birdy’s optimism and inner certainty do not always drive it to give its utmost efforts to achieve a goal. The communications skills Birdy possesses are an advantage as well as a handicap. Birdy makes use of its theatrical gifts, convincing eloquence, and ability to listen. The best careers for Birdy would be teaching, communications, philosophy, the legal profession, theater, and public relations.
Birdy has a deep and fertile inner life, but sometimes doesn’t have enough energy to follow through on all of her dreams. She usually understands phenomena and events intuitively, without really making any effort, so she’s not in the habit of disciplining or shaping her thoughts. Like her thoughts, her personality is kind of amorphous and disorganized. As a result, she may have some trouble asserting her individuality and making some personal contribution to society through her career. Her tendency to shut out reality and dream impossible dreams can be a source of some difficulty for her.
Birdy is pragmatic and realistic. She evaluates people and things according to practical, common-sense criteria instead of abstract concepts. A sensualist and lover of luxury, she has a penchant for material comfort and takes great joy in physical pleasures. In relation to others, socially and privately, she likes to build stable relationships and is not especially fond of change. Her warmth gives her a great deal of ease when meeting people, as clients (for business purposes), but her close relations also benefit from this affection and her ability to express her feelings naturally and openly.
Birdy has a sensitive and affectionate nature. She seeks tenderness and gentleness more than passion. Her relationships with others are smooth and pleasant, and she has a natural sense of tact and social grace.
The third person narrator relates birdy’s character traits and how they relate to her mother. The third person narrator says that birdy is emotional and tends to react suddenly and excessively when her sensitivity is touched, although she feels that her independence, freedom, and self-sufficiency are fundamental values. The third person narrator also says that birdy does not always grant the freedom of other people the same respect as her own. Likewise, the third person narrator says that birdy is sometimes angered by expressions of maternal tenderness, as if she feared that it would doom her to eternal dependency. The third person narrator says that birdy’s ambivalent behavior, full of jagged edges, may be traced back to the relationship she had with her mother or a mother figure. Although birdy was dependent on her mother, the third person narrator says that her mother may have rejected her. Now, the third person narrator says, this attitude is extended to any situation in which birdy’s sensitivity comes into play and emotional bonds are likely to form. To ward off her feelings of dependency, birdy sometimes becomes destructive. Based on denial, her reactions might be fierce, impulsive, excessive, erratic, or contradictory.
Birdy has a sensitive and imaginative mind that sometimes leads to difficulty distinguishing dreams from reality. Although her bubbling imagination provides an abundant source of inspiration for creative and spiritual evolution, it can sometimes be less helpful and positive when it comes to matters that concern her self-assertion as responsible and self-sufficient in a relationship. In Birdy’s opinion, relationships are extremely romantic and she doesn’t always see others the way they really are.
Birdy’s sensitivity and emotions are often in conflict with her instincts. This inner discord makes her a fairly complicated relationship partner, and her behavior sometimes strikes others as mysterious or baffling. She is liable to switch from one attitude to the opposite. Sexuality is an important part of her life, and her relationships are most often motivated by her desires. Nevertheless, due to her unconscious inner battle, she does not often succeed in reconciling and fulfilling her emotional and sexual needs. Due to the strength of her instincts, passion may overwhelm her and drag her into situations she cannot always control, which intermingle erotic ecstasy and agony, guilt, and aggressiveness.
Birdy enjoys captivating people with the elegance and ease of her expression. She is a witty and engaging flirt, an avid player of the game of love. As a result, the history of her affections is liable to be episodic, a long series of chapters about conquests or fleeting love affairs. She may carry on some love relationships by writing letters.
Birdy’s birth chart indicates an emotional function which is usually expressed carefully and reasonably. Distrustful of her emotional urges and somewhat wary of her feelings, she tries to rid herself of all partiality and try to get some perspective and distance before making an emotional commitment.
Birdy enjoys life, gaiety, and the sensuality of being attractive. Her simple tastes border on the rustic, but she is pragmatic and realistic and not likely to rush into marriage on a wild impulse. Quite the contrary, she’ll take her time and plan out every detail. Because she is very sensual, she enjoys luxury and entertaining guests and is likely to dwell in a comfortable house, probably in a rural setting. Nature invigorates her, and she thrives on family life.
Birdy has a certain innocent charm. Without making any special efforts, she is often solicited and has a number of pleasurable little romances. Fortunately, she is fairly tolerant, because she tends to be attracted to young people who may not be especially loyal or serious. It is better that she not rely on them.
You have a romantic imagination, soaring with idealism, dreams, and poetry. You are emotive and hypersensitive, making you especially vulnerable emotionally, since you are sometimes overwhelmed by your feelings and affects. Although you seek an ideal soulmate, a partner with whom you could maintain blissful, smooth relations, you are sometimes met with disillusionment. Because your rather excessive sensitivity and your need to merge with the other are deep and powerful enough, they can submerge your judgment and discernment, so you sometimes form extremely intense bonds too quickly with individuals who are not appropriate partners in many ways. When you meet someone, you fall under the enchantment of your dream of ideal love and cannot keep yourself from delighting in a reverie of future romance, placing the other on a pedestal. Early on in the relationship, you yield to another of your characteristic urges and lose yourself in the individual who is so dear to you, melding with them, only to awaken one morning and find yourself as if in the arms of a stranger, greatly astounded and disappointed. Actually, your psyche is constructed in such a way as to make your sensitivity a function of the environment, in many cases; it follows the flow of momentary emotions and impressions. Before you take on any major commitments, you should make a conscious effort to evaluate the relationship realistically, and see whether the person really reciprocates your intense love, for you may merely be in love with the mirage of an ideal partner. Your tendency to believe in your illusions may mark you as an easy prey for people with bad intentions. It would be a good idea for you to find a different object for your affections, or a form of sublimation, because you tend to be so disappointed by your great emotional investments. The delicacy and subtlety of your imagination procure artistic refinement for you, and you love the arts, music, and literature, which could all be good sources of emotional involvement and fulfillment. Because your sensitivity also makes it easy for you to empathize with the psychological or social difficulties your peers are struggling with, you might also find it rewarding to commit yourself to social work.
Birdy is somewhat plodding but realistic and pragmatic. Because she is chiefly preoccupied with the practical aspects of things, she is especially apt to develop more efficient production concepts. Although her good judgment and common sense provide her with an excellent ability to handle the tangible world (she is certainly clever, and can quickly assess the tangible value of things), her thought processes might be relatively impervious to abstract concepts and spiritual awakenings.
Birdy does not express her thoughts and ideas smoothly or easily. She tends to be subjective, seeking to know herself better through a process of introversion.
Birdy thinks that your intellect and wit are sometimes slow because they are turned inward. Because you tend to be oriented toward yourself, you rarely try to communicate with others for the simple pleasure of doing so. Indeed, you sometimes feel misunderstood. Moreover, it seems difficult for you to express the complexity of your inner perceptions.
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