BJ Stead is a steadfast individual who tries to stay grounded. His ambitions are strong, and he will always be seeking a higher social position. Sometimes he adopts a strategy of solitude and introversion.

Your personality and behavior are liable to be disrupted by a contradiction between the masculine and feminine archetypes ruling your psyche. Because your sensitivity is in conflict with your determination, your attitude and performance may be moody, fluctuating, and uncertain. Usually, you have the feeling you have to make superhuman efforts to succeed in assuaging your yearnings and fulfilling your ambitions. Your unconscious, sensitive side often disapproves of your conscious endeavors and stealthily works to defeat them, causing crucial omissions, mistakes, and gaps which effectively sabotage your plans. In your relationships, the images you build up and projects on the other are contradictory. As a result, any bond, even if it is pleasant and positive, also grates on your nerves. You find it dissatisfying and irritating at the same time.

BJ Stead has great strength of character. His courage and endurance enable him to accomplish even extremely arduous tasks. Although he sometimes behaves impulsively, he generally knows how to plan out an effective strategy, and, as a result, he reaches his goals without meeting any major obstacles. His forcefulness gives him certain leadership skills, which he may implement to creative and constructive ends.

You are sober and rather reserved and may even strike people as harsh and austere at times. Perhaps you were raised in an atmosphere of rigor and sobriety, and, as a result, grew up very fast. You have acquired a spirit of self-sufficiency, tend to be rather uncompromising, and have a touchy sense of your personal dignity and worth. You may find it difficult to relate to others on an emotional level, as you feel you do not have the time or the emotional capacity to do so. You may have had to compensate for this lack with your physical and intellectual abilities. As a result, although you are skillful, meticulous, conscientious, and efficient, you may find it difficult to relate to others on an emotional level. You sometimes feel as though you are only masquerading as a respectable, sober adult. You are aware that early success is often short-lived and fragile and that time rewards those who know how to be patient and persistent, like you.

BJ Stead has a nagging feeling of insecurity which affects his psychology and dampens his natural enthusiasm. His need to take action and assert himself is sometimes disturbed by this gnawing fear.

BJ Stead usually maintains a cool and detached demeanor, suppressing his feelings and sensitivity in order to avoid any potential confrontation or situation where he might have to express them. This inhibition is related to a feeling of not having been loved enough. In many cases, this can have detrimental effects on his love life, as he often submerges all of his energy into his career pursuits. He seeks social recognition through his professional accomplishments.

BJ Stead has a lively and curious intelligence, the very opposite of empty rhetoric and studiousness. She is agile and adaptable and can not only analyze difficult situations objectively but also demonstrate a profound comprehension when faced with a psychological problem.

Although your demeanor is cool and distant, you are extremely sensitive. In some cases, your rather austere and rigid behavior and your refusal to yield too readily to sentimentality discourage others from being too demonstrative of their tenderness and affection. You have spells of melancholy in which you do not feel worthy of being loved and tend to forbid yourself emotional fulfillment. An austere or somewhat traumatic childhood experience may be the source of this behavior. You may have suffered rejection in your infancy, and, as a result, lacked the parental love which is essential to the cohesion of a personality and identity. In order to feel secure, and to protect yourself from ever suffering rejection or abandonment again, you withdrew into yourself and developed your aloofness as a defense mechanism. When you finally let down your defenses and allow yourself to express your feelings, you tend to become impassioned and exalted. You are fairly introverted and egocentric and have a powerful sense of your own identity.

BJ Stead tries to gain the approval of others by showing that she is worthy of their affection. However, her pessimism remains, and the severe taboos she unconsciously places on herself sometimes keep her from developing quickly.

BJ Stead has trouble distinguishing dreams from reality. Although BJ’s bubbling imagination provides an abundant source of inspiration for creative or spiritual evolution, it sometimes is less helpful and positive in matters that concern BJ’s self-assertion as responsible and self-sufficient. Although BJ’s psychic faculties drive BJ to fulfill herself through artistic activities like painting, drawing, music, or poetry, it may be difficult for BJ to market her talents in terms of a career. In a relationship, BJ is extremely romantic and does not always see others the way they really are. Because of BJ’s tendency to idealize people, BJ may be disappointed when their true natures are eventually betrayed.

BJ Stead is known for being secretive and sensitive. She has a passion for sexuality and enjoys relationships that are full of passion. She would find a career that put her in contact with troubled people rewarding.

BJ Stead’s sensitivity can sometimes lead to a partner’s feeling overwhelmed and their compassion for BJ being profound. BJ readily sacrifices her own interests for others, often providing help and assistance. A romantic and idealist, BJ sometimes lacks discernment in the choice of her partners. She is fairly confused and evasive and has trouble expressing her feelings clearly. Nevertheless, she is capable of devoting herself entirely to the person she loves. BJ has a tendency to daydream and become lost in herself.

BJ Stead’s birth chart indicates an emotional function which is expressed in a direct and fairly impulsive way. She enjoys reaching out to other people and making discoveries. An eternal teenager with her gaze riveted on the future, she is imbued with an eminently subjective and personal idealism.

According to the aforesaid, BJ Stead seems to be more or less torn between two different sides of his nature. His desire to impress conflicts with his attachment to the nest; his social ambitions contradict his need for security; and his natural selfishness is hard to reconcile with his altruism. He is likely to marry a prominent person or one he can be proud of. His own social position may disappoint him, but his family will give him satisfactions he may have missed out on.

In love, BJ Stead has a high-minded ideal of purity. She believes it can be found in a fairly young or naive person, but she is hardly realistic about the situation. The ideal companion for BJ Stead could easily become a staid person with prosaic ideas and dull, old-fashioned tastes. The type of marriage that would suit BJ Stead would be one based on friendship or a fortunate coincidence of yearnings.

You are a passionate and ardent person, and your relationships with the opposite sex are enlivened by intensity and passion. A charmer perpetually engaged in a quest for the ideal love, you are often more in love with the idea of love than with your partners. As a result, your love life may be subject to some instability. You are generally attracted to original people who defy norms, standards, and classifications, and expect them to amaze and fascinate you. Love is often a matter of luck with you. Even when a relationship falls apart, you do not see the experience as a failure or a tragedy; instead, you seem to learn valuable lessons from your mistakes. Psychologically, your emotion contributes positively and efficiently to your evolution. From another standpoint, your acute sensitivity predisposes you to original and subtle tastes; you are so receptive to beauty and attached to the concepts of truth and balance that they may all combine to yield remarkable creative potential.

BJ Stead has a great emotional ideal, full of subtlety and tenderness. However, she tends to be overwhelmed by her imagination and may not be selective enough when choosing a partner. Her romantic and trusting nature may make her vulnerable. Although she strives to establish peaceful, uncomplicated relations, she sometimes experiences painful disappointments. Her artistic delicacy and refinement provide her with a sincere love of the arts, music, and literature. She is likely to be a gifted poet.

You are a complex individual, full of contradictions. You sometimes feel vulnerable emotionally, so you try to control not only your own feelings and urges, but may also strive to manipulate those of your partners. You aspire to a profound and enduring spiritual unity, but at the same time, the idea of abandoning yourself and yielding to the other terrifies you. This anguish may be a source of rather extreme behavior patterns and a somewhat self-focused attitude which could damage the relationship. Because you are guarded and somewhat secretive, you tend to be suspicious and are especially uneasy about spontaneous intimacy. Within the privacy of the couple, you will not express your feelings unless you are subject to some tension. Life may be peppered with frequent crises and feuds, arguments and spats which usually act as erotic provocation. This derivation of eroticism from anxiety tends to be one of the fundamental characteristics of your emotional and sexual functioning. As a result, you are likely to be attracted by stormy and complicated relationships.

BJ Stead is somewhat plodding but realistic and pragmatic. Because she is chiefly preoccupied with the practical aspects of things, she is especially apt to develop more efficient production concepts. Although her good judgment and common sense provide her with an excellent ability to handle the tangible world (she is certainly clever, and can quickly assess the tangible value of things), her thought processes might be relatively impervious to abstract concepts and spiritual awakenings.

BJ Stead tries to shun subjectivity and be as objective as possible. His thoughts are usually structured, and his reasoning, based on objective facts or experience, usually relates to practical goals.

BJ Stead has a great deal of intuition but sometimes has problems organizing his thought processes and making an intellectual commitment. The concepts of boundary and structure are inimical to his mind, which is open and all-encompassing, premonitory, and web-like. His thoughts may be verbally indeterminate, vague, and ill defined. He tends to understand or sense things globally, without always noticing their component parts. Usually, he can’t see the trees for the forest. In daily life, although his perceptions are lively and subtle, he may display a kind of absent-mindedness, out of a fear of annoying people with his shrewdness or of fighting to assert himself. His imagination sometimes escapes from the confines of logic, cringing from a confrontation with reality. This unwillingness to face the real world may cause relationship or career challenges.