Black Rambo seeks others in order to structure himself. Intuitively sensing this need, he seeks a balance between his individual ambitions and need to give to others and be loved and recognized in return. Although it sometimes eludes him, marriage and friendship could be realms to which he is especially devoted. However, they may also prove to be a source of conflict and disillusion.
You have a strong paternal complex and find it difficult to find your identity. Perhaps your father or a father figure was absent physically or emotionally during your childhood, which deprived you of the patterns or models which are usually helpful in structuring a personality. Because you might have lacked a particular sense of security which could be provided by a paternal presence, as well as the examples of behavior to follow in confronting the difficulties inherent in every life, you were forced to protect yourself against negative influences and find your own system in order to grow and feel secure. Although this system was quite useful to you as a child, it has now settled in to such a degree that it interferes with your evolution. Psychological defense mechanisms and crutches which were once useful now encumber your mind or inhibit your developmental efforts. As a result, in certain situations, it is difficult for you to assert yourself, and you tend to remain an awkward or passive observer. Because your authoritarian urges are mainly directed at yourself rather than others, you sometimes feel guilty about your behavior. You judge yourself severely, and sometimes punishes yourself by setting difficult tasks for yourself. Gradually, you should build up a strong inner discipline and acquire the strength to face the problems of existence in a detached and mature way.
You may go through periods of intense energy and activity, followed by periods of lethargy and inactivity. During your “highs,” your behavior is lively and active, but it may also be excessive. These periods usually alternate with “lows,” periods of sluggishness and passivity, which compensate for your intense need to assert yourself.
How can you find a way out of this cycle that uses up so much of your energy?
You would have to understand that the source of your attitudes and behavior is an unconscious desire for power. We suggest that you meditate upon power, skills, mastery, challenge, desire, and need, your brothers (or brother substitutes, such as friends, cousins, or classmates) – who are key figures – and your adversaries. This should enlighten you. Of course, once you have a clear awareness of your career ambitions and profound desires, you are sure to have plenty of energy to accomplish them.
Black Rambo is pragmatic and realistic. He evaluates people and things according to practical, common-sense criteria instead of abstract concepts. A sensualist and lover of luxury, Black Rambo takes great joy in material comfort and takes great pleasure in physical pleasures. In relation to others, socially and privately, Black Rambo likes to build stable relationships and is not especially fond of change. His warmth gives him a great deal of ease when meeting people, as clients (for business purposes), but his close relations also benefit from this affection and his ability to express his feelings naturally and openly.
You are a reserved, introspective person. You often keep to yourself and prefer to let your actions speak for themselves. You are patient and tolerant, but you can also be obstinate and resistant to change. You often find yourself in conflict with others, but you are also a gifted negotiator. You have a deep emotional wellspring, and you are able to express yourself powerfully and vulnerably. You should be careful not to let your private life interfere with your professional or social goals. If you and your partner analyzed the problem, you might be able to find a resolution.
Although your demeanor is cool and distant, you are extremely sensitive. In some cases, your rather austere and rigid behavior and your refusal to yield too readily to sentimentality discourage others from being too demonstrative of their tenderness and affection. You have spells of melancholy in which you do not feel worthy of being loved and tend to forbid yourself any emotional fulfillment whatsoever. An austere or somewhat traumatic childhood experience may be the source of this behavior. It is difficult for your inner self to be detached from this past life, and you sometimes have trouble reconciling the image you have of yourself as an adult with the one you acquired back then. Although the past is history, and you are now an adult, the idea you have of yourself as an individual is related to the image your parents projected onto you as a child. However, the past is history, and you are now an adult. Through self-work, you can rid yourself of these phantoms. You have the ability to overcome your mistakes, as well as great endurance and will power to achieve your goals.
Although Black Rambo is pragmatic and relatively realistic, he is sometimes tormented by an insidious feeling of insecurity which interferes with his ability to grasp reality. Change unnerves him, and at certain times, he tends to cling to old-fashioned customs or lifestyles. Insecurities might cause him to repress his emotional needs.
You are emotional and tend to react quickly and excessively when your sensitivity is touched. Although you believe that your independence, freedom, and self-sufficiency are fundamental values, you sometimes feel frustrated by your need to rely on your family or friends. Furthermore, you do not always grant the freedom of other people the same respect as your own. Likewise, you may become angry when expressions of maternal tenderness are shown, as if you feared that it would doom you to eternal dependency. Your ambivalent behavior, full of jagged edges, may be traced back to the relationship you had with your mother or a mother figure. Although you were dependent on them, they may have rejected you. Now this attitude is extended to any situation in which your sensitivity comes into play and emotional bonds are susceptible to form. To avoid feeling dependent, you sometimes become destructive. Based on denial, your reactions might be fierce, impulsive, excessive, erratic, or contradictory.
Because Black Rambo’s sensitivity and imaginative mind can sometimes get in the way of distinguishing dreams from reality, he often has trouble earning a living in the real world. In a relationship, Black Rambo is extremely romantic and sees others the way they really are sometimes, but he also has elegant tastes and enjoys art and beauty very much.
Black Rambo has a romantic nature and is seeking a soulmate. The world of his emotions is warm and inviting, the expression of true kindness. Tenderness, grace, and mildness rule his sensitivity, which is aroused by contact with nature and thrills to the idea of a secure, stable home.
Black Rambo’s birth chart indicates that he has an emotional function which is usually expressed carefully and reasonably. Black Rambo distrusts his emotional urges and somewhat wary of his feelings, so he tries to rid himself of all partiality and try to get some perspective and distance before making an emotional commitment.
Black Rambo’s love for life, gaiety, and sensuality make him attractive. His simple tastes may border on the rustic, but he is pragmatic and realistic, not likely to rush into marriage on a wild impulse. Quite the contrary, he’ll take his time and plan out every detail. Because he is very sensual, he enjoys luxury and entertaining guests, and he is likely to dwell in a comfortable house, probably in a rural setting. Nature invigorates him, and he thrives on family life.
Black Rambo enjoyed the simple pleasures and satisfactions that endured the tests of time and legal sanctions. He delighted in loving someone who took meticulous care of him and made sure he lived like royalty. He tended to loathe complications and knots in his emotional and romantic commitments.
You are cautious and reserved, often unwilling to open yourself to others if you’re not sure of being accepted. You will always hang back somewhat from your emotional urges, parceling out your expressions of affection, because you have learned – sometimes at your expense – that even the most harmonious relationships require some compromise. For you, “good fences make good neighbors,” and well-marked boundaries can prevent future suffering. Thus, even when you’re in love, you remain fairly circumspect. When you find yourself attracted to a partner, you privately engage in a careful analysis of their personality and life story, endeavoring to know them profoundly, to see whether you’re likely to be able to share your life and future with them. As a result of your sensitivity, you have a profound affinity for all of the arts. Music, literature, painting, and graphic arts are likely to enrich your existence and make it pleasant. You could progress in any career in which balance, order, and practicality predominate.
You are emotive and hypersensitive, making you especially vulnerable emotionally, since you are sometimes overwhelmed by your feelings and affects. Although you seek an ideal soulmate, a partner with whom you could maintain blissful, smooth relations, you are sometimes met with disillusionment. Because your rather excessive sensitivity and your need to merge with the other are deep and powerful enough, they can submerge your judgment and discernment, so you sometimes form extremely intense bonds too quickly with individuals who are not appropriate partners in many ways. When you meet someone, you fall under the enchantment of your dream of ideal love and cannot keep yourself from delighting in a reverie of future romance, placing the other on a pedestal. Early on in the relationship, you yield to another of your characteristic urges and lose yourself in the individual who is so dear to you, melding with them, only to awaken one morning and find yourself as if in the arms of a stranger, greatly astounded and disappointed. Actually, your psyche is constructed in such a way as to make your sensitivity a function of the environment, in many cases; it follows the flow of momentary emotions and impressions. Before you take on any major commitments, you should make a conscious effort to evaluate the relationship realistically, and see whether the person really reciprocates your intense love, for you may merely be in love with the mirage of an ideal partner. Your tendency to believe in your illusions may mark you as an easy prey for people with bad intentions. It would be a good idea for you to find a different object for your affections, or a form of sublimation, because you tend to be so disappointed by your great emotional investments. The delicacy and subtlety of your imagination procure artistic refinement for you, and you love the arts, music, and literature, which could all be good sources of emotional involvement and fulfillment. Because your sensitivity also makes it easy for you to empathize with the psychological or social difficulties your peers are struggling with, you might also find it rewarding to commit yourself to social work.
You are an extremely complex individual, full of contradictions. Because you sometimes feel vulnerable emotionally, you try to control not only your own feelings and urges, but may also strive to manipulate those of your partners. You aspire to a profound and enduring spiritual unity, but at the same time, the idea of abandoning yourself and yielding to the other terrifies you. This anguish may be a source of rather extreme behavior patterns and a somewhat self-focused attitude which could damage the relationship. Because you are guarded and somewhat secretive, you tend to be suspicious and are especially uneasy about spontaneous intimacy, although you are fascinated by sexuality. Within the privacy of the couple, you will not express your feelings unless you are subject to some tension. Life may be peppered with frequent crises and feuds, arguments and spats which usually act as erotic provocation. This derivation of eroticism from anxiety tends to be one of the fundamental characteristics of your emotional and sexual functioning. As a result, you are likely to be attracted by stormy and complicated relationships.
Black Rambo is a somewhat plodding but realistic and pragmatic individual. Because he is chiefly preoccupied with the practical aspects of things, Black Rambo is especially apt to develop more efficient production concepts. Although his good judgment and common sense provide him with an excellent ability to handle the tangible world, his thought processes might be relatively impervious to abstract concepts and spiritual awakenings.
Black Rambo finds it difficult to express himself. He often relies on his subjective experiences to learn about himself, which can make him difficult to understand.
Black Rambo felt misunderstood and complex. His intellect was sometimes slowed down by his tendency to focus inward, and he found it difficult to communicate with others for the simple pleasure of doing so. He often felt misunderstood, and he found it difficult to express the complexity of his inner perceptions.
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