Blarg is determined to obtain a superlative grip on his emotional urges; he practices holding back his impulses and controlling them. Although it is not an easy apprenticeship, he wants to be able to bear strain with patience, endurance, and stamina. More than anyone else, he is aware of the need for a solid and stable foundation as a prerequisite to any effective action.
Blarg has a paternal complex, which means that he has trouble finding his identity. He may have lacked a particular sense of security which could be provided by a paternal presence, or he might have lacked examples of behavior to follow in confronting the difficulties inherent in every life. As a result, he was forced to protect himself against negative influences and find his own system in order to grow. However, this system has now settled in to such a degree that it interferes with his evolution. Blarg’s psychological defense mechanisms and crutches which were once useful now encumber his mind or inhibit his developmental efforts. As a result, in certain situations, it is difficult for him to assert himself and he tends to remain an awkward or passive observer. Because his authoritarian urges are mainly directed at himself rather than others, he sometimes feels guilty about his behavior. He judges himself severely, and sometimes punishes himself by setting difficult tasks for himself. Gradually, he should build up a strong inner discipline and acquire the strength to face the problems of existence in a detached and mature way.
You are an individualist who believes in freedom and independence. You have discarded the conventional values of your social class and adopted an innovative lifestyle. Your passionate convictions can sometimes cause problems in your relationships, as you are an uncompromising partner. You would do well to learn to recognize your own limitations and accept the responsibilities you have to other people. If you do not do this, you are likely to be embroiled in conflicting relationships. The roots of your somewhat extreme behavior may be traced back to your relationship with your father or teachers when you were younger. For one reason or another, you may have rejected the paternal image or refused to identify with your father. In every important life decision you make as an adult, you must rely on yourself to elaborate the appropriate behavior and impose limits on your desires in relation to reality and the law.
Blarg thinks that because your personality is ruled by your mind, you need intellectual stimulation in order to feel fulfilled. Blarg is always on the move, in search of new contacts. Curious about all sorts of different subjects, Blarg takes care to inform himself about many things. Blarg enjoys conversation and communication and hopes to be admired for his talent and wit. Due to Blarg having such a wide variety of interests, however, Blarg can be something of a dilettante, and his thinking may sometimes lack discipline.
Blarg is an expansive, affable, and communicative associate. Indeed, some people find him generous almost to a fault! He gives of himself and his resources unstintingly. Paradoxically, there are times when he is self-focused. He reacts instinctively, without taking the trouble to analyze a given situation, and is prone to misjudge. As a result, his everyday life may be riddled with a whole variety of practical problems. Indeed, he senses a conflict between his social life and his family and will sometimes find it hard to fulfill himself in both spheres at the same time. His attitude toward his private life may inhibit his ambitions for social or career expansion; at worst, society (the law) may impinge on his private life. He should be careful not to project his personal problems onto his partner. If, instead, the two of them analyzed the problem, they might be able to find opportunities to resolve it together.
Blarg tries to express its affections in the most graceful and harmonious way possible. Indeed, it has an innate sense of harmony and strives for a love relationship characterized by balance and perfection. It tends to idealize both its partner and the institution of marriage. Any disillusionment it encounters in the pursuit of its ideal may be experienced as a frustration. It does not always ply its powers of seduction skillfully.
Blarg’s birth chart indicates an emotional function which is expressed in a direct and fairly impulsive way. Blarg enjoys reaching out to other people and making discoveries. An eternal teenager with his gaze riveted on the future, Blarg is imbued with an eminently subjective and personal idealism.
Blarg is full of wit and cleverness, easily obtaining what they want. They ridicule anything outside their sphere of approval with caustic humor. They have no fear of complicated situations. They may find themselves bound to a possessive partner or one who does not give them what they expect.
Blarg is very lucky in love and cannot live without his following of admirers, preferably people of power and influence. Prestige will play an important role in his relationship. A wonderful host, a busy and successful social or society life is essential to his well-being.
You are hypersensitive and tend to relive the anxieties, apprehensions, and romantic absolutes of your first love relationships, which occurred around the ages of 13-14 years or 20-21 years. You are exquisitely sensitive, but almost completely barricaded behind a layer of aloofness. You will not settle for anything less than eternal commitment, total harmony, and absolute loyalty. You are sometimes presumed to be cold, even by those close to her. You usually hide your emotional reactions or do not even allow them to reach the level of your consciousness, in order to protect your sensitivity, which you see as your weak point. You are fairly vulnerable, even in the intimacy of a stable and established relationship. Usually, you will disguise your strong feelings as a kind of possessiveness or even jealousy. Certain misfortunes may arouse a negative emotional state inside you, and you feel unworthy of the love which is lavished on you. This psychological prohibition which rules over all of your desires and affects should loosen with the passage of time; likewise, your fear of approaching the other will diminish. As a result, the second part of your romantic life will be more rewarding. In any case, if you want to experience a harmonious love relationship and gratify yourself emotionally, the defense mechanisms you have elaborated to make yourself inaccessible to others will have to be dismantled. Any profound relationship will also require that you learn how to forget yourself occasionally in the other.
Blarg has an ardent and amorous character, and their relationships with the other sex are enlivened by intensity and passion. A charmer perpetually engaged in a quest for the ideal love, they are often more in love with the idea of love than with their partners. As a result, their love life may be subject to some instability. They are generally attracted to original people who defy norms, standards, and classifications, and expect them to amaze and fascinate them. Love is often a matter of luck with them. Even when a relationship falls apart, they do not see the experience as a failure or a tragedy; instead, they seem to learn valuable lessons from their mistakes. Psychologically, their emotion contributes positively and efficiently to their evolution. From another standpoint, their acute sensitivity predisposes them to original and subtle tastes; they are so receptive to beauty and attached to the concepts of truth and balance that they may all combine to yield remarkable creative potential.
Blarg has a great emotional ideal, full of subtlety and tenderness. However, Blarg tends to be overwhelmed by Blarg’s imagination and may not be selective enough when choosing a partner. Blarg’s romantic and trusting nature may make Blarg vulnerable. Although Blarg strives to establish peaceful, uncomplicated relations, Blarg sometimes experiences painful disappointments. Blarg’s artistic delicacy and refinement provide Blarg with a sincere love of the arts, music, and literature. Blarg is likely to be a gifted poet.
You are an extremely complex individual, full of contradictions. Because you sometimes feel vulnerable emotionally, you try to control not only your own feelings and urges, but may also strive to manipulate those of your partners. You aspire to a profound and enduring spiritual unity, but at the same time, the idea of abandoning yourself and yielding to the other terrifies you. This anguish may be a source of rather extreme behavior patterns and a somewhat self-focused attitude which could damage the relationship. Because you are guarded and somewhat secretive, you tend to be suspicious and are especially uneasy about spontaneous intimacy, although you are fascinated by sexuality. Within the privacy of the couple, you will not express your feelings unless you are subject to some tension. Life may be peppered with frequent crises and feuds, arguments and spats which usually act as erotic provocation. This derivation of eroticism from anxiety tends to be one of the fundamental characteristics of your emotional and sexual functioning. As a result, you are likely to be attracted by stormy and complicated relationships.
Curious, skeptical, and pragmatic, you have a shrewd, inquisitorial mind. You always try to detect the hidden mechanisms and processes behind the phenomena you observe. As a result, you have developed the ability to detect the truth behind appearances and the cause behind the effect. Although this way of thinking is based on a certain logic, and there is evidence of structure and cohesion in your deductive approach, it is not always purely intellectual. Indeed, its sources lie in a certain empiricism, in facts which have been experienced, so it is open to improvement. For this reason, its fields of application are highly diverse, although research in the hard sciences, psychology, and metaphysics seem to be the best career choices.
Blarg expresses their thoughts and ideas in direct, spontaneous outbursts. They are fairly extroverted and eager to discover and understand the outer world. An idealist, they look forward to a bright future but are sometimes subjective and reckless.
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