Bobbi Schultz becomes aware of her flaws and tries to improve them.

Bobbi Shultz may experience discord in relationships. Although she is friendly and outgoing and commits herself to friendships and partnerships, she often finds it difficult to balance her own needs, desires, and goals with the objective reality of others and their individual desires and needs. To understand and overcome this problem, she should accept the idea that every relationship follows more or less the same general scheme: a base of intimacy and an accomplishment or purpose apart from the relationship itself. If she succeeds in defining, through discussion and communication, what sort of intimate relationship she and her partners want to maintain and what accomplishment or purpose they hope to achieve, many conflicts will be avoided.

Bobbi Shultz, because of her tendency to be self-focused at times, may encounter conflict in relationships. Her certainty that she is bound to succeed, combined with impulsiveness, make her want to take charge of everything. This aggressiveness and lack of cooperation could arouse resentment in others. She would do well to meditate on the concepts of authority and individualism.

Bobbi Shultz tends to lure others to her and gain their love and approval. As a lover, she might be the impetuous type who rushes into a relationship without thinking, making a great show of affection at the outset. She could learn to evaluate the pros and cons of an emotional commitment more carefully if she wants to avoid leaving a trail of broken hearts.