If you want to improve and transform yourself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution. Your insatiable appetites, your stubbornness, your grimness, and your reluctance to change are all potential inhibitors of your growth.

You sometimes sense a conflict between your desire for social and professional success and your need for a stable, secure domestic life. You are deeply committed to both ideas and do not always succeed in reconciling their schedules and demands on you. Sometimes it feels as though you will never be able to find a balance. However, no job promotion will really satisfy you if you have neglected your most intimate needs and desires. Although it sometimes seems easier to you to climb the rungs of the career ladder out there in the real world, if you merely sacrifice your domestic life, you are only trying to fool yourself. You should accept the fact that your domestic life is the true basis and foundation of your development. All your career endeavors and success will be even more rewarding if they are supported by a safe, warm personal life.

Bonnie Lalich, you may experience discord in relationships. Although you are friendly and outgoing and commit yourself to friendships and partnerships, you often find it difficult to balance your own needs, desires, and goals with the objective reality of others and their individual desires and needs. To understand and overcome this problem, you should accept the idea that every relationship follows more or less the same general scheme: a base of intimacy and an accomplishment or purpose apart from the relationship itself. If you succeed in defining, through discussion and communication, what sort of intimate relationship you and your partners want to maintain and what accomplishment or purpose they hope to achieve, many conflicts will be avoided.

In Bonnie Lalich’s efforts to accumulate wealth and social power, she sometimes betrays a lack of toleration for other people’s belief systems and values. Although she trusts her own talent for business, finance, and investments thoroughly, she should be aware that she is liable to make some errors in judgment. Because she identifies so strongly with her own individual habits and work routines and isn’t as keen to learn from others, she may waste her energy at times.

As a result of your great ambitions, Bonnie Lalich is fairly organized. She is able to work long and hard to achieve her goals and elaborates fairly rigid strategies to protect herself against any foreseeable obstacles. She is so absorbed in her business she does not always realize that she tends to be somewhat peremptory with the people around her and that she might do well to soften her tone and be more tactful at times. Her friendships seem stifling and superfluous to her, and she is sometimes tormented by inner conflict when she is forced to submit to another’s will. To succeed, Bonnie Lalich works to be less dogmatic. Trust in herself and other people and flexibility.

Bonnie Lalich is rather obstinate, stubborn, and impervious to outside influences. Although her determination is an asset in bringing plans and projects to completion, it may also arouse bitter hostility against her. To fit in best, she considers working on her flexibility and diplomacy.

Bonnie Lalich has deeply anchored emotional needs. Invariably, she tries to revive these sensations from her personal history, clinging to the security provided by the repetition of a feeling which produced a positive effect in the past. Her desire for possession (tangible or emotional) could become a problem, because she may fixate on an object which is negative or bad for her. She will do well to make a conscious effort to overcome this unconscious negative conditioning which may be related to her childhood.

Bonnie Lalich’s mental processes are lightning quick. As a result, she tends to jump to conclusions and make immediate decisions before she knows all the facts. This rash and impetuous behavior could cause communications problems and arouse needless opposition in others. Her mind is generally too busy with the immediate future to take time for careful analysis and reflection. She would do well to slow down and organize herself before she speaks. However, the same behavior has a positive side. It can be of great use to her in rushed or quickly changing work situations, which require last-minute, immediate decisions.