Boyinaband searches for stability. It wants to find a firm, unchanging structure for its life. But its efforts to achieve this ideal are often vain, because unconsciously, it is also inhabited by the opposite desire. Every time it reaches what it believes to be a good balance, it realizes it wants something entirely different. It should become aware that the concepts of stability and balance are difficult to apply to life. By definition, life is movement, change, and perpetual instability.
Born under a new moon, you enjoy a positive balance between the conscious and unconscious aspects of your psyche. Your determination and sensitivity balance one another and work together harmoniously. Your inner life contributes to the relationships with other people which make up your outer life. Your parents or teachers probably gave you the type of education which was adapted to your personality. As a result, your personality is balanced, which, of course, does not mean that your life is devoid of little asperities. Generally, the goals you set for yourself correspond to your skills. Without giving the matter much thought, you tend to follow prevailing trends and behave in a conventional enough way. You are objective and see the world according to the way it really is.
Boyinaband is affectionate by nature, and loves to play a decisive and central role in his life. He is a charmer who needs to be loved and be noticed. Aware of his personal magnetism and the power it gives him, he will make subtle changes in himself in order to attract positive attention. Boyinaband is sophisticated and pleased to savor a lifestyle he sees as a consummate art.
You may be subject to mood swings, going from phases of frenzy combined with a feeling of omnipotence and exaltation to phases of apathy and inertia. During your “highs,” your behavior is vigorous and dynamic, but it is also likely to be somewhat excessive. These periods tend to be interspersed with “lows,” phases of sluggishness and inhibition, which compensate for your immense need to assert yourself as an individual. How can you find a way out of this vicious cycle which uses up so much of your energy? You would have to understand that the source of your attitudes and behavior is an unconscious desire for power. We suggest that you meditate upon power, skills, mastery, challenge, desire, and need, your brothers (or brother substitutes, such as friends, cousins, or classmates) – who are key figures – and your adversaries. This should enlighten you. Of course, once you have a clear awareness of your career ambitions and profound desires, you are sure to have plenty of energy to accomplish them.
Boyinaband has a great potential for creative, constructive accomplishments; however, it is sometimes difficult for Boyinaband to gain access to this part of itself. Boyinaband is confident in itself and life but may tend to be nonchalant. Boyinaband sometimes needs a little stimulation to get itself rolling and take some initiative. Boyinaband’s optimism and inner certainty do not always drive it to give its utmost efforts to achieve a goal. The communications skills Boyinaband possesses are an advantage as well as a handicap. Boyinaband makes use of its theatrical gifts, convincing eloquence, and ability to listen. The best careers for Boyinaband would be teaching, communications, philosophy, the legal profession, theater, and public relations.
Boyinaband has a profound and fertile inner life and a prolific imagination, but her energy resources are not always sufficient to follow through on and accomplish her multitude of dreams. She tends to live in osmosis with her environment, and effort and action take a heavy toll on her. Usually, she understands phenomena and events intuitively, without really making any effort; so she is not in the habit of disciplining or shaping her thought processes. Like her thoughts, her personality is rather amorphous and disorganized. As a result of this lack of structure, she may have some trouble asserting her individuality and making some personal contribution to society through her career. Her tendency to shut out reality and dream impossible dreams, like her refusal of responsibility and duty, may be a source of some difficulty for her.
The Boyinaband prefers to do things in a planned and methodical manner. Their behavior reflects this tendency. They will adopt relatively strict models developed on the basis of logical or moral reasons. They do not readily express their personal feelings or emotions and may sometimes strike others as a rigid person. However, their conscientiousness and application make them thrive in a work environment, and they tend to treat social engagements and activities as a form of duty. Their natural taste for clarity, detail, and technique would make them successful as a scientific researcher or high-tech designer.
Boyinaband has an intelligent mind that is lively and agile. However, he does not always use it and may be confused or irrational in some situations. Although he enjoys playing with words, ideas, and concepts, his thought sometimes lacks discipline and structure. He is fairly preoccupied with details and may tend to waste his nervous and mental energy in futile verbal outpourings. Additionally, his feelings sometimes blur his objective vision of phenomena and people, which may cause him to make errors in judgment.
Boyinaband is sensitive and perceptive. Luxuriant in tenderness and gentleness, it abhorred any form of violence and was disturbed by the absence of harmony. This made its relations with others smooth and easy.
Boyinaband has a sensitive personality. It may jump to conclusions, which could disrupt relationships, as well as career plans. It is subject to cyclical energy flows and goes from periods of feverish activity to periods of withdrawal and introspection. The aggressive element in its behavior may be explained by emotional problems it may have experienced in infancy: its mother, or a mother figure, may have had an energetic and volatile personality.
Boyinaband is a cheerful, expansive, pleasant associate to have. He is extremely generous (sometimes to a fault!) and gives of himself and his belongings unstintingly. This positive psychological outlook is the result of a happy childhood and especially an extremely beneficial maternal influence in infancy. Boyinaband is quite likely to be a professional success; his vision of the world is perfectly adapted to prevailing opinion, and his urges and desires for personal expansion usually elicit a positive reaction from society. By old age, his good reputation and prominence may have earned him fame.
Because you have always been independent and creative, you have developed a strong identity and philosophy on your own. You enjoy challenging the education and values you receive from your family and class, and you are able to forge a unique personality and philosophy. You have a strong desire for freedom and independence, but you are able to reconcile this with your need for affection. You have a lively wit and a quick interest in the future, technological progress, and new lifestyles. You would be especially successful in communications-related careers, such as journalism, film, TV, radio, and advertising. Although you are an independent individualist, you also have a powerful desire to contribute to the evolution of society and improve its development.
Boyinaband was having a difficult time distinguishing dreams from reality. Although his imagination could be an abundant source of inspiration for creative or spiritual evolution, it tended to be less helpful and positive in matters that concerned earning a decent living out in the real world. In a relationship, Boyinaband was extremely romantic and did not always see others the way they really were. He had elegant tastes and art and beauty were one of his chief pleasures in life.
Boyinaband, in affairs of the heart, is fairly shy, reserved, and discreet. Even in intimacy, he remains modest and does not always readily express his feelings. He’s sensitive and giving, wishing to be of service to those he loves. He would do well to trust that he deserves to be made as happy as he makes his partner.
Boyinaband’s birth chart indicates that he has an emotional function which is usually expressed carefully and reasonably. Boyinaband distrusts his emotional urges and somewhat wary of his feelings, so he tries to rid himself of all partiality and tries to get some perspective and distance before making an emotional commitment.
Boyinaband must straddle two important principles of their personality. They are both sensitive and intelligent, as well as hypersensitive and hyperemotive, which may inspire them to try to relieve others of their suffering and carry the whole world on their shoulders. The return from their dreams to reality is always traumatic for their psyche. It will be difficult for them to find fulfillment alone; aware of this, they will seek out someone who can protect them, as well as act as a guide.
Boyinaband tends to be wary of passion and sometimes tries to make their feelings obey reason and logic. They keep a cool head, observing from afar the romantic imbroglios of others, which they enjoy analyzing and deciphering. They are skillful at playing hard-to-get or at any other little tricks or techniques which will ensure their success when they want it. They are likely to remain uncommitted until middle age, keeping their hand in (as it were) with little adventures and romps. But they may change after midlife.
Boyinaband has the fiery, importunate nature of a fervent lover. Indeed, affairs of the heart are one of Boyinaband’s main purposes in life. His personal charm and magnetism give him nearly irresistible powers of seduction, and nearly every one of his well-aimed attempts at conquest leads to the fulfillment and satisfaction of his desires. Due to his impulsiveness and impatience to initiate new encounters, Boyinaband’s approach to members of the other sex may sometimes lack delicacy.
Boyinaband may be characterized by strong sensual and affectionate urges which drive it to seek pleasure. Its need for romantic fulfillment may compel it to marry, because it also seeks the legal and social legitimacy the institution of marriage confers on an emotional bond. Indeed, the household is liable to be prosperous and even opulent, as if this offered further evidence that it had indeed achieved success. However, privately, it might be less committed to certain obligations and duties.
Boyinaband has an emotional ideal that is full of subtlety and tenderness. However, she tends to be overwhelmed by her imagination and may not be selective enough when choosing a partner. Her romantic and trusting nature may make her vulnerable. Although she strives to establish peaceful, uncomplicated relations, she sometimes experiences painful disappointments. Her artistic delicacy and refinement provide her with a sincere love of the arts, music, and literature. She is likely to be a gifted poet.
The Boyinaband has a fairly skeptical temperament which relies on remarkable analytical and critical faculties. The Boyinaband is sensitive and curious, a keen observer of facts who collects detailed information. The Boyinaband later pore over and analyze. This type of logical, rational mind is extremely efficient for elaborating methods or sorting and classifying information. However, it sometimes lacks flexibility or broad-mindedness.
Boyinaband tries to shun subjectivity and be as objective as possible. His thoughts are usually structured, and his reasoning, based on objective facts or experience, usually relates to practical goals.
In relations with other people, your behavior is usually kind and benevolent. However, when you must compete or deal with direct conflict and hostility, you may be somewhat at a loss for how to behave. You have an undeniable gift for oratory which could be applied to a communications-related occupation or to artistic expression (as a stage or screen actor). Writing and dance, two other arts which associate expression and movement, might also be fields in which you would excel.
The Boyinaband has a lively and agile spirit. This makes them curious and open-minded, approaching various life experiences without prejudice. As a result, they often have an opinion on every subject. However, they do not always have the patience or perspective necessary to examine a subject and gain in-depth knowledge of it. They enjoy manipulating expressions and concepts and find amusement in wit, satire, and controversy. If they learned to control their flow of words better and elaborate their thoughts more, they might make a talented communicator. Because they are often too hasty to formulate and construct the arguments which would back up and inform their ideas, they are often misunderstood. They are often blind to the rashness of their judgments and convinced they are well-founded and objective, which sometimes irritates the people around them. If they were to succeed in disciplining their mind somewhat, they would have numerous opportunities to apply their communications skills to a great career. However, they would do well to be careful of their nerves.
Boyinaband has a mind with an insatiable appetite for knowledge and an exceptional ability to learn. Without trying too hard, he could probably accumulate encyclopedic erudition. His intellectual curiosity is such that it is sometimes a drawback. He sometimes has trouble limiting himself to a single subject without being distracted by a multitude of others. Discipline and a conscious effort at organization will be of great help if he wants to deepen his learning and judgment. Once his intellectual faculties are disciplined, he is likely to succeed in any of the following fields: teaching, historical scholarship, advertising, writing (journalistic or literary), travel, etc: – in fact, communication in any form.
The Boyinaband has a great deal of intuition, but sometimes has problems organizing his thought processes and making an intellectual commitment. The concepts of boundary and structure are inimical to his mind, which is open and all-encompassing, premonitory, and web-like. His thoughts may be verbally indeterminate, vague, and ill defined. He tends to understand or sense things globally, without always noticing their component parts. Usually, he can’t see the trees for the forest. In daily life, although his perceptions are lively and subtle, he may display a kind of absent-mindedness, out of a fear of annoying people with his shrewdness or of fighting to assert himself. His imagination sometimes escapes from the confines of logic, cringing from a confrontation with reality. This unwillingness to face the real world may cause relationship or career challenges.
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