Brandon McDermott searches for stability in his life. He wants to find a firm, unchanging structure for his life, but his efforts to achieve this ideal are often vain, because unconsciously, he is also inhabited by the opposite desire. Every time he reaches what he believes to be a good balance, he realizes he wants something entirely different. He should become aware that the concepts of stability and balance are difficult to apply to life. By definition, life is movement, change, and perpetual instability.
You have a paternal complex, which means that you have trouble finding your identity. Perhaps your father or a father figure was absent physically or emotionally during your childhood, which deprived you of the patterns or models which are usually helpful in structuring a personality. Because you lacked a particular sense of security, which could be provided by a paternal presence, as well as the examples of behavior to follow in confronting the difficulties inherent in every life, you were forced to protect yourself against negative influences and find your own system in order to grow and feel secure. Although this system was quite useful to you as a child, it has now settled in to such a degree that it interferes with your evolution. Psychological defense mechanisms and crutches which were once useful now encumber your mind or inhibit your developmental efforts. As a result, in certain situations, it is difficult for you to assert yourself, and you tend to remain an awkward or passive observer. Because your authoritarian urges are mainly directed at yourself rather than others, you sometimes feel guilty about your behavior. You judge yourself severely, and sometimes punishes yourself by setting difficult tasks for yourself. Gradually, you should build up a strong inner discipline and acquire the strength to face the problems of existence in a detached and mature way.
Brandon McDermott was born under the auspices of two celestial lights that were in perfect symmetry. This signified that his personality would be in balance and would have a positive complementarity between the conscious and unconscious aspects of his mind. Brandon’s parents reflected this archetype to him, as they encouraged him to be himself and not try to be like his parents. This has led to Brandon being comfortable in who he is and having great relationships with his family and friends. When it comes to his emotional relationships, Brandon’s ego does not project negative images onto the people he cares about. The energy between him and the people he cares about is a source of mutual happiness and there are no conflicts that are projected onto the other person.
Brandon McDermott is vigorous and energetic. He has an immense need to assert his individuality and his attitudes and actions are actually motivated by an unconscious desire for power. His puzzled people close to him cannot understand whether his behavior is the result of pure selfishness or merely of an excess of energy. He is lively, alert, and determined, but he is too easily distracted from goals by futile competition or opportunities to exhibit his power. He has a short temper and must learn to control his impulsiveness, which might expose him to a great deal of unnecessary conflict.
You are an individualist who believes in freedom and independence as your most basic values. You have thrown off the conventional and social norms of your class and adopted an innovative lifestyle. Your passionate convictions can sometimes conflict with your relationships, as you are uncompromising with your partners. You should learn to recognize your own limitations and accept the responsibilities you have to other people in order to have positive relationships. The roots of your behavior may be in your relationship with your father or teachers when you were younger. For one reason or another, you may have rejected the paternal image or refused to identify with your father. In every important life decision, you must rely on yourself to develop the appropriate behavior and impose limits on your desires in relation to reality and the law.
Brandon McDermott is sensitive and receptive and tends to live in osmosis with his surroundings. His individuality almost seems to be diluted in a flood of sensations and impressions which are continually washing over him, and he sometimes finds it difficult to communicate his feelings to other people. This tide of emotion is a source of inspiration and intuition, but his fluid inner structure and organization sometimes make it difficult for him to grasp the essence of his dreams and share them with other people. He is not at all combative, and this tends to hinder his efforts to fit into society and assert himself productively. He is likely to prefer fantasy to reality, but his refusal to abandon his unattainable dreams is a psychological trap he has fallen into without realizing it. He must understand that by running away from his obligations and commitments, he only increases the feelings of guilt which made reality so distasteful in the first place. Once he free himself from this pernicious process, he has a great deal of potential for fulfilling himself in the outer world, either by devoting himself to some sort of social work or by cultivating his considerable artistic talents.
Brandon McDermott is an eloquent speaker and compulsive charmer. He has a powerful personal magnetism which may sometimes make him seem arrogant or smug. He cares a great deal about his reputation and will try hard to be admired and appreciated by the people around him. Fond of social events and parties, Brandon likes to be the host, to entertain and charm a captive audience of guests. Indeed, Brandon has special dramatic and artistic talents of the caliber necessary for success in film, theater, fashion, or art in general. Brandon enjoys displaying his generosity, but he also displays a short temper at times; he is easily offended. Brandon’s partner will have to be a brilliant person, strong and sure of themselves, devoted to Brandon and capable of enhancing his reputation.
You are an expansive individual who is communicative and affable. Some people find you generous almost to a fault! You give generously of yourself and your resources, and often find yourself self-focused. Paradoxically, there are times when you are able to analyze a situation and take the time to consider the ramifications. Although you react instinctively, you may not always be aware of the consequences of your actions. For this reason, your personal life can be riddled with a variety of practical problems. Additionally, you may have difficulty fulfilling yourself in both your social and family life at the same time. Your attitude towards your personal life may inhibit your ambitions in your professional or social life. You should be careful not to project your personal problems onto your partner. If you and your partner analyze the problem, you may be able to find opportunities to resolve it together.
Brandon McDermott hides his sensitivity behind a cool exterior. He is conservative, respectful of tradition and convention, and likes to follow the rules. Because he needs stability to alleviate his feelings of frustration and sometimes emotional dependency, he has great faith in contracts which seal relationships. His ties to his past are fairly strong. They are a source of reassurance and safety, because his parents likely gave a lot to him.
Brandon McDermott had a sensitive and imaginative mind, which sometimes led to confusion between dreams and reality. His rich imagination provided a plentiful source of inspiration for creative or spiritual evolution, but it was less helpful and positive when it came to his self-assertion as responsible and self-sufficient in relationships. In Brandon’s eyes, everyone was beautiful and perfect, no matter their true nature.
Brandon McDermott’s sensitivity and emotions are sometimes in conflict with his instincts. This inner discord makes him a fairly complicated relationship partner, and his behavior sometimes strikes others as mysterious or baffling. He is liable to switch from one attitude to the opposite. Sexuality is an important part of his life, and his relationships are most often motivated by his desires. Nevertheless, due to his unconscious inner battle, he does not often succeed in reconciling and fulfilling his emotional and sexual needs. Due to the strength of his instincts, passion may overwhelm him and drag him into situations he cannot always control, which intermingle erotic ecstasy and anguish, guilt, and aggressiveness.
Brandon McDermott’s personality is dominated by love and affectivity. He is subject to love at first sight, and his gallant heart sometimes leaps forth impulsively; his sensitivity is lively and powerful. Amorous rivalries and conquests may be a recurring theme throughout his life.
Brandon McDermott’s birth chart indicates that he has an emotional function which is usually expressed carefully and reasonably. Brandon distrusts his emotional urges and somewhat wary of his feelings, so he tries to rid himself of all partiality and get some perspective and distance before making an emotional commitment.
Brandon McDermott is understanding and knows how to empathize and get whatever he wants without even asking. His artistic nature requires refined and elegant surroundings. Indeed, he enjoys the social whirl and is a talented hostess. In a relationship, Brandon requires perfect harmony of feeling. Only a scrumptious person who is attentive, admiring, and perfectly understanding will be able to fulfill him.
Brandon McDermott loves freedom and high ideals. He attracts partners who share these same values, and who are also successful in their own right. Brandon is likely to meet someone who is accepting, respects his freedom, and enjoys traveling as much as he does.
Cautious and reserved, you are sometimes unwilling to open yourself to others if you are not sure of being accepted. You will always hang back somewhat from your emotional urges, parceling out your expressions of affection, because you have learned – sometimes at your expense – that even the most harmonious relationships require some compromise. For you, “good fences make good neighbors,” and well-marked boundaries can prevent future suffering. Thus, even when you are in love, you remain fairly circumspect. When you find yourself attracted to a partner, you privately engage in a careful analysis of their personality and life story, endeavoring to know them profoundly, to see whether you are likely to be able to share your life and future with them. As a result of your sensitivity, you have a profound affinity for all of the arts. Music, literature, painting, and graphic arts are likely to enrich your existence and make it pleasant. You could progress in any career in which balance, order, and practicality predominate.
Brandon McDermott has a rather irrational mind and a voracious intellect, which is usually subject to the rule of his prolific imagination. Although he is likely to have flashes of intuition which may prove to be correct, his thought processes are sometimes messy and confused. His mind, which is oriented in many different directions at the same time, is ruled by his emotions and feelings. In tune with psychic and parapsychic phenomena, his thinking requires only the adjunct of structure to rise from the level of a blurry, uncertain, undifferentiated mass to that of a really significant vision with a grip on the real world.
Brandon McDermott expresses his thoughts and ideas carefully, but with a relative lack of spontaneity. He is rather introverted and looks inside himself for the solutions to the problems he encounters in life. Because he tends to mistrust customary thought patterns, his opinion is usually highly personal.
Brandon McDermott has an inward-oriented intellect and wit, which sometimes slows him down. He seldom tries to communicate with others for the simple pleasure of doing so, and he sometimes feels misunderstood. Moreover, it seems difficult for him to express the complexity of his inner perceptions.
You have a lively and agile spirit, but you tend to apply your mental abilities in a somewhat haphazard and disorderly way. You are curious and open-minded, approaching various life experiences with an attitude free of either dogmatism or prejudice. Your extremely lively mind leads you to have an opinion on every subject. Although you enjoy manipulating expressions and concepts and amuses others and yourself with witty remarks, your conversations could collapse into argument and conflict. Because you are often too hasty to formulate and construct the arguments which would back up and inform your ideas, you are sometimes misunderstood. You are often blind to the rashness of your judgments and convinced they are well-founded and objective, which sometimes irritates the people around you. Actually, your overriding need to assert yourself as an individual sometimes defeats discussion and prevents you from listening to the other person fairly. But if you were to succeed in disciplining your mind somewhat, you would have innumerable opportunities to apply your communications skills to a great career. Furthermore, you should be careful of your nerves, which are fairly high-strung. Any physical fitness activity would be beneficial; an Eastern discipline such as yoga or Tai-chi-chuan could teach you how to relax and improve control of your nervous and mental energies.
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