Brenda Lee thinks that if she can become aware of her weaknesses, she can start to improve and transform herself. She knows that she needs to be able to bluff well, be able to manage things, be stable, and be willing to change her opinions in order to become a better person.

You sometimes feel a conflict between your desire for social and professional success and your need for a stable, secure domestic life. You are deeply committed to both ideas and sometimes find it difficult to reconcile their schedules and demands on you. Sometimes it feels as though you will never be able to find a balance. However, no job promotion will really satisfy you if you have neglected your most intimate needs and desires. Although it sometimes seems easier to you to climb the rungs of the career ladder out there in the real world, if you merely sacrifice your domestic life, you are only trying to fool yourself. You should accept the fact that your domestic life is the true basis and foundation of your development. All your career endeavors and success will be even more rewarding if they are supported by a safe, warm personal life.

Brenda Lee struggles with setting unrealistic goals and with organizing her emotions. She idealizes potential partners and tries to dodge her commitment, but she also rushes into life pursuits and has a crude, confused concept of them. Life urges her to slow down and induce her to organize herself more patiently and forethought.