If you want to improve and transform yourself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution. These may include your coolness and distance, your lack of consideration for others, your rigidity, your need for total control, and your fear of your emotions.

Briar Nolet experiences discord in relationships. Although she is friendly and outgoing and commits herself to friendships and partnerships, she often finds it difficult to balance her own needs, desires, and goals with the objective reality of others and their individual desires and needs. To understand and overcome this problem, she should accept the idea that every relationship follows more or less the same general scheme: a base of intimacy and an accomplishment or purpose apart from the relationship itself. If she succeeds in defining, through discussion and communication, what kind of intimate relationship she and her partners want to maintain and what accomplishment or purpose they hope to achieve, many conflicts will be avoided.

Briar Nolet has many talents, but it can be difficult for her to focus on one thing. She is ruled by her nervousness and her suggestibility, which can make it difficult for her to use her adaptive abilities to their fullest extent. If she wants to be truly effective, she needs to learn to control her jittery mind. If she has respiratory problems, like asthma, it means that the need to change is urgent.

Briar Nolet tends to lure others in and gains their love and approval. As a lover, she might be the impetuous type who rushes into a relationship without thinking, making a great show of affection at the outset. She could learn to evaluate the pros and cons of an emotional commitment more carefully if she wants to avoid leaving a trail of broken hearts.