If you really want to improve and transform yourself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution. As you become more aware of these weaknesses, you can begin to work on addressing them.

Bris Mat has a conflict between her desire for social and professional success and her need for a stable, secure domestic life. She is deeply committed to both ideas and does not always succeed in reconciling their schedules and demands on her. Bris Mat sometimes feels as though she will never be able to find a balance, but she knows that no job promotion will really satisfy her if she neglects her most intimate needs and desires. Although it sometimes seems easier to her to climb the rungs of the career ladder out there in the real world, if she merely sacrifices her domestic life, she is only trying to fool herself. Bris Mat should accept the fact that her domestic life is the true basis and foundation of her development. All her career endeavors and success will be even more rewarding if they are supported by a safe, warm personal life.

Bris Mat is sensitive and sometimes impressionable. This can be a productive and creative factor, but if he does not manage to control his emotionalism, it can also hamper his adaptation to the realities of life. Were that to be the case, his ability to find happiness within himself could gradually cut him off from his environment. He must thus work on detaching himself from his emotions and getting a handle on his sensitivity. His intuitive ability to perceive other people’s inner energies could predestine him for a socially oriented career. As a caregiver, healer, helper, guide, or advisor, he could succeed in teaching, psychology or psychiatry, or social work.