Bris Mat seems passive and more or less resigned to her fate, including her insecurity. Actually, she is fairly introverted and withdrawn, trying to make sense out of her inner confusion and fathom her inner depths.
You have a paternal complex and, as a result, some trouble finding your identity. Perhaps your father or a father figure was absent physically or emotionally during your childhood, which deprived you of the patterns or models which are usually helpful in structuring a personality. Because you might have lacked a particular sense of security which could be provided by a paternal presence, as well as the examples of behavior to follow in confronting the difficulties inherent in every life, you were forced to protect yourself against negative influences and find your own system in order to grow and feel secure. Although this system was quite useful to you as a child, it has now settled in to such a degree that it interferes with your evolution. Psychological defense mechanisms and crutches which were once useful now encumber your mind or inhibit your developmental efforts. As a result, in certain situations, it is difficult for you to assert yourself, and you tend to remain an awkward or passive observer. Because your authoritarian urges are mainly directed at yourself rather than others, you sometimes feel guilty about your behavior. You judge yourself severely, and sometimes punishes yourself by setting difficult tasks for yourself. Gradually, you should build up a strong inner discipline and acquire the strength to face the problems of existence in a detached and mature way.
At the moment of your birth, the two celestial lights were symmetrically aligned. This is a portent of harmony between the masculine and feminine archetypes which is extremely beneficial. It is the source of balance and understanding between the two main psychological realms which may be said to compose the personality. You thus enjoy a positive complementarity and understanding between the conscious and unconscious aspects of your psyche, between your determination and your routines, between your drive for self-assertion and your receptivity, your ideal and your sensitivity. Your parents almost certainly reflected a positive image of the marriage relationship to you, and it is likely that they encouraged you to develop your own individuality. As a result, you were and are able to be comfortable with yourself as you are instead of striving to attain your parents’ ideal. This has definitely contributed to the maintenance of a good relationship with them and the rest of the family. In your emotional relationships with your peers, one of the effects of the masculine/feminine harmony is that the images your ego projects on the other are especially constructive. The bonds of the relationship are not felt to be constraints, the energy which flows between the two people is a source of mutual happiness, not regret. No major personal conflicts are projected onto the “other” – that is, the significant other.
Bris Mat is fairly strong-willed and mindful of efficiency when it comes to going about his purposes. When relating to others, he sometimes has trouble expressing his emotions, but he does have a lively sensitivity and is capable of lasting passion. As he grows older, Bris Mat is quite likely to come into his own and acquire great intellectual and spiritual wisdom. His honesty, integrity, and sense of duty will win him recognition and appreciation. Passing time will be a very important factor in his destiny, and his greatest accomplishments will guarantee him stability and prosperity. Although Bris Mat is not especially enterprising, he will move into a high career position as soon as he feels sure of his abilities.
You are an individualist who respects freedom and independence as the most fundamental values in your life. You have thrown off the conventions and expectations of your social class, and adopted an innovative lifestyle. Your passion for your beliefs sometimes disturbs your relationships, as you are an uncompromising partner. You need to learn to recognize your own limitations and accept the responsibilities you have to other people, or you will find yourself constantly embroiled in conflicting relationships. The roots of your behavior may lie in your relationship with your father or teachers in childhood and adolescence. For one reason or another, you may have rejected the paternal image or refused to identify with your father. In every important life decision you make as an adult, you rely on yourself to elaborate the appropriate behavior and impose limits on your desires in relation to reality and the law.
You are a dreamer and a idealist, drawn to the imaginative and creative aspects of life. Your sensitivity and receptiveness make you highly responsive to your surroundings, and you often find it difficult to communicate your feelings to other people. This may be because as a child you were not able to understand your teachers’ disciplinary measures or their authority, and so you withdrew into yourself. This created a private world where you could indulge in your own interests and ideas without being interfered with. Because you enjoyed this freedom, it may be harder for you to take an objective view of reality and to act in accordance with what is really happening. This can lead to problems in your life, even today, because it is difficult for you to understand the essence of your dreams and share them with other people. You are not at all confrontational, and this makes it difficult for you to fit into society and assert yourself effectively. You are likely to prefer fantasy to reality, but your refusal to abandon your dreams is a psychological trap you have fallen into without realizing it. You must understand that by running away from your obligations and commitments, you only increase the feelings of guilt and incompetence which made reality so distasteful in the first place. Once you free yourself from this pernicious process, you have a great deal of potential for fulfilling yourself in the outer world, either by devoting yourself to some sort of social work or by cultivating your considerable artistic talents.
Bris Mat generally tends to be motivated by activities which apply to social needs. She tends to give the best of herself in difficult situations which require crucial choices. Her ability to concentrate and her gift for solving problems by deductive reasoning are her chief resources in crisis situations or at turning points in her life.
The subject is restless and full of energy. They have a personality which is sometimes agitated but straightforward. Unconscious feelings of insecurity compel them to act. As a result, they are unable to bear idleness and routine. Their reactions to others are highly individual and depend on the mood they are in at any given moment. A person of decision, a businessperson or an athlete, they often personify boldness and impetuosity. Their love life is liable to be fiery, as it obeys the imperatives of their desire for freedom and independence, and their need for change.
Bris Mat has a sensitive personality. She may jump to conclusions, which could disrupt relationships, as well as career plans. She is subject to cyclical energy flows and goes from periods of feverish activity to periods of withdrawal and introspection. The aggressive element in her behavior may be explained by emotional problems she may have experienced in infancy: her mother, or a mother figure, may have had an energetic and volatile personality.
Bris Mat is a cheerful and expansive associate who is extremely generous. She has a positive psychological outlook because she has happy childhood and maternal influence in infancy. She is likely to be a professional success and her vision of the world is perfectly adapted to prevailing opinion. She usually elicits a positive reaction from society. By old age, her good reputation and prominence may have earned her fame.
Bris Mat tends to keep herself guarded, preferring to keep her thoughts to herself. She has a strong, passionate streak when it comes to her relationships, and is driven by her desires. She is interested in understanding those with hidden motivations, and would find a career that puts her in contact with troubled people most rewarding.
Bris Mat has a romantic nature and is seeking a soulmate. The world of her emotions is warm and inviting, the expression of true kindness. Tenderness, grace, and mildness rule her sensitivity, which is aroused by contact with nature and thrills to the idea of a secure, stable home.
Bris Mat’s birth chart indicates an emotional function which is expressed in a direct and fairly impulsive way. She enjoys reaching out to other people and making discoveries. An eternal teenager with her gaze riveted on the future, she is imbued with an eminently subjective and personal idealism.
Bris Mat is constantly subject to nervous tension, which wears her out and exhausts her. Her mind and body are always feverishly active. She always tends to do too much, to become obsessed with insignificant details, or to panic when faced with the unexpected. She is likely to marry a partner who’s younger than she is, either chronologically or in terms of their sense of duty. But perhaps her second marriage will be more reasonable and satisfying.
Bris Mat prefers to be gentle and tame in bed. She prefers partners who are kind and affectionate. A home life that is warm and secure brings Bris Mat fulfillment. She will devote herself body and soul to her family.
Bris Mat has an intellect that is simultaneously subjective and sensitive, acute and intuitive, always practical and deeply rooted in human experience. With her memory and imagination combined with her shrewdness, Bris Mat would be a gifted project manager, businesswoman, or scholar of history or literature.
Bris Mat expresses her thoughts and ideas in direct, spontaneous outbursts. She is fairly extroverted and eager to discover and understand the outer world. An idealist, Bris Mat looks forward to a bright future but is sometimes subjective and reckless.
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