If you really want to improve and transform yourself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution. Brittany Renner has identified her hypersensitivity, emotionalism, and lack of self-confidence as the primary obstacles to her growth.

You sometimes feel a conflict between your desire for social and professional success and your need for a stable, secure domestic life. You are deeply committed to both ideas and often struggle to reconcile their schedules and demands on you. Sometimes it feels as though you will never be able to find a balance, but no job promotion will really satisfy you if you neglect your most intimate needs and desires. Although it sometimes seems easier to you to climb the rungs of the career ladder out there in the real world, if you merely sacrifice your domestic life, you are only trying to fool yourself. You should accept the fact that your domestic life is the true basis and foundation of your development. All your career endeavors and success will be even more rewarding if they are supported by a safe, warm personal life.

As a young person, you may feel out of place with the social conventions and belief systems regulating your community or the ethical codes you are supposed to follow. Although, like anyone, you want to become a productive and valuable member of society, the models of success and achievement you see around you don’t particularly inspire you for some reason. In order for you to find your own individual way to fit in, you will have to go through a period of long, hard introspection and self-examination, if you have not done so already. This intense introspection will yield a new self-image, a new identity, and a new vision of the world. It will be a turning point in your way of participating in society. Possible opportunities for introspection include a major journey, or advanced studies, etc.