Brooklyn Kelly has decided that she wants to improve herself and become a better person. The first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding her back and preventing her from evolving. She shallowness, lack of sincerity, indifference, frivolity, and fear of commitment are all weaknesses that Brooklyn Kelly needs to work on.

Brooklyn Kelly has fairly single-minded and obstinate desires. She displays a remarkable persistence in the pursuit of her commitments, despite any obstacles she may encounter. She is highly charged with sensuality and sexuality, and they have a great deal of influence on her behavior. Her expression in this area is sometimes fraught with problems because she has a tendency to try too hard to control her lustful urges. However, an emotional crisis intervening at around age 40 may bring about a total redefinition of her relationship to her sexuality.

To trust yourself better and gain self-assurance, the first thing you must do is learn to say no. Once you are capable of saying no to others, you can say yes to life. You must learn to be present in all situations, and to enjoy the present moment. This is the foundation that will support you, the inexhaustible source and center of the transformation of your personality. Infantile anxieties which arose in childhood when you were helpless may be obstacles to your evolution. Sometimes they actually prevent you from daring to confront challenges you would be altogether capable of assuming now! One of the reasons you yield to these childhood fears so readily is that they procure a feeling so familiar to you that, although it is negative, it is a reassuring part of your identity. However, the more often you reinforce this complex by yielding to that feeling, the more unaware you become of your true emotional state. The irrational childhood fears have also reinforced your pessimistic tendencies. It is difficult for you to believe in the sunny side of life because of the pernicious little voice inside you that claims you don’t really deserve all this goodness. This side of you could undermine your vitality and force you to compensate or flee from reality. In doing so, you limit your power to bring about a positive change in yourself or your life. It’s a vicious cycle, and to free yourself, the first step is to free yourself from the fears which prevent you from taking full advantage of life. You can succeed if you arrange a relaxed, positive environment for yourself, establish sincere relations with one or two special people, and, if possible, find a setting – perhaps a yoga class – in which you can practice relaxation exercises.