Brooklyn Queen, if you really want to improve and transform yourself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution. Your continual need for security, tendency to escape into fantasy, hunger for approval, longing for the past, and fear of the future are all holding you back. Investing in systems which will help you overcome these weaknesses is the first step on the path to transformation.

Brooklyn Queen, you may experience discord in relationships. Although you are friendly and outgoing and commit yourself to friendships and partnerships, you often find it difficult to balance your own needs, desires, and goals with the objective reality of others and their individual desires and needs. To understand and overcome this problem, you should accept the idea that every relationship follows more or less the same general scheme: a base of intimacy and an accomplishment or purpose apart from the relationship itself. If you succeed in defining, through discussion and communication, what sort of intimate relationship you and your partners want to maintain and what accomplishment or purpose they hope to achieve, many conflicts will be avoided.

Brooklyn Queen, because of your tendency to be self-focused at times, may encounter conflict in relationships. Your certainty that you are bound to succeed, combined with impulsiveness, make you want to take charge of everything. This aggressiveness and lack of cooperation could arouse resentment in others. You would do well to meditate on the concepts of authority and individualism.