If you want to improve and transform yourself, the first step is to become aware of the weaknesses which may be holding you back and preventing your evolution. You need to become aware of the things which are preventing you from progressing and growing. There are many things which can hold you back. These can be things like your need for security, your tendency to escape into fantasy, your hunger for approval, your longing for the past, your fear of the future, and your investment systems. By becoming aware of these weaknesses, you can start to work on fixing them. You can then progress and grow as a person.